Now, when a woman does something that signals"I like you," it is VITALLY important that you:
1) Know how to recognize it
2) DON'T do what MOST guy do
3) DO the right thing, and AMPLIFY it
So how can you tell if a woman is doingsomething that says "I like you?"
Well, it's VERY important to remember thatwomen are far more "subtle" than men (most of thetime, that is).
If a man is interested in a woman, you can seeit all over his face. It's usually very obvious.
But women are different.
Women do SMALL things.
A little touch. A sly smile. Sometimes acomment like "You're so cute" (as in your exampleabove).
But then IT'S GONE.
Women always seem to act like they're not quitesure.
They don't send consistent signals that mostmen can "read."
And when they DO send signals that are easy tosee, most guys respond in a way that makes thosesignals stop... which makes things even MOREconfusing.
Again, women aren't as CONSISTENT as men.
A woman can seem like she's interested oneminute, then stand-offish the next.
So rule #1 is:
JUST BECAUSE SHE'S DOING SOMETHING THAT SAYS "ILIKE YOU", DON'T THINK THAT IT MEANS "I LIKE YOUNO MATTER WHAT."
Much better to interpret subtle "I like you"cues as "I like you for a second, but if you startacting like a Wuss Bag or a Dumb Ass, it will allbe over in an instant."
Unfortunately for most guys, they take "I likeyou" signals to mean "You've won my approval, nowyou can do whatever you want".
And what do they do? Of course...
They turn into dorks, say or do a few stupidthings, and destroy it all.
Oh, how many times I've watched guys (myselfincluded) screw up perfectly good situationsbecause they just didn't get this concept.
Let me give you an example.
Let's say that you're out with a woman, andyou've been teasing her, and she smiles and says,"I like you."
A typical "male" response is for a guy to thinkto himself "OK, I'm in... she digs me" and to getthat rush in the head and chest.
Next thing you know, he's acting different.
He's talking about different things.
He's giving compliments.
He's being "nicer."
And what's the woman thinking while this is allgoing on? Of course... she's thinking, "Uh oh, hiscool, calm, interesting personality was just acover for the secret inner-Wuss that was hidingout, waiting for a little bit of approval fromme... AHHHHHH!"
Women KNOW that they're in control of thesituation. Or at least MOST of the time theyare... and they THINK that they are even duringthe times when they're not.
They're constantly using different kinds ofcommunication to test and "feel out" thesituation.
Remember, MOST of the time when you're sayingsomething that you think is nice, charming, andoriginal, it's something that a woman has heardabout 47 times that week from other guys.
We guys act VERY predictably most of the time.
And women know how to tell if you're justanother loser who's pretending to be cool... whowill turn into an average Wuss at the first signof attraction from a cute woman.
Think about what I just said.
This is hard for a lot of guys to swallow...but it's the reality of the situation.
There's something that women call "SexualTension." It's also known as "Chemistry" or"Attraction" as well. But only WOMEN know it thisway. I've got an entire program that can teach youabout this amazing skill, if you want to learn howto use it... by the way:
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When you tease a woman, make her laugh, playhard to get with her, act unpredictably, etc. inthe right way, you will create this tension. Thisis what usually leads to a woman saying somethinglike "You're cute" or "I like you."
It's the TENSION that makes her FEEL it and SAYit.
THE TENSION!
In these very special moments, you need to turnthe tension UP. Dial it up. AMPLIFY it.
Don't diffuse it all by saying "You're cuteyourself" or "I like you, too". Or by smiling likea jackass wussy dork who has just seen his firstrainbow.
This kind of thing RELEASES the tension, and itusually takes that wonderful electric attractionfeeling that the woman is feeling and INSTANTLYkills it.
Does this make logical sense?
Hell no.
But it IS what happens.
OK, so let's talk about the RIGHT way to handlethis type of situation.
Remember when I said that it's the TENSION thatmakes a woman feel the feelings and make thecomments?
And that you need to AMPLIFY it when you'regetting a positive response?
Nice.
Once upon a time, there was a scene in a moviethat illustrated this concept PERFECTLY.
In fact, it might be the all-time greatestexample of this principle that has ever beenrecorded on film.
Remember the end of "The Empire Strikes Back,"when they were about to put Han Solo into the deepfreeze?
Remember when Leia said, "I love you"...?
Remember what Han said?
Right, he said... "I know."
Perfect.
All of the sexual tension that built up in StarWars and Empire culminated in Leia confessing herlove.
And Han says, "I know."
Awesome!
Imagine being Leia. What could be going throughher mind at this point?
An answer like this isn't easy to understand.It has all kinds of implications.
It's confusing.
It says, "I know you love me, because it's beenobvious for a long time...." But, it doesn't letHER know how he feels exactly. It requiresconsideration. It dials up the tension. It'samazing.
By the way, I read that when they were filmingthat scene, Han was supposed to answer, "I loveyou too," but the director didn't like it. Theytried all kinds of things, and in the end HarrisonFord made up that line on the spot in one of thetakes... and they kept it. Nice.
By the way, one of the BIG reasons why thenewer movies in the Star Wars series suck isbecause there is no character like Han... thinkabout it. It's all boring, predictable stuff.There's no sexy, arrogant, funny, wildcardpersonality messing things up.
Like I pointed out after I saw "Attack Of TheClones," Anakin had to kill an ENTIRE VILLAGE ofSand People just to convince Princess A. that hewasn't a complete and total Wuss. Would have beenso much easier and more entertaining if he wouldhave just had a PERSONALITY.
Whatever.
Now, where was I...?
Oh, yeah... amplifying the sexual tension...
If you're out with a woman, and you tease herbecause she's wearing four inch heels by saying"What's the deal, are you four feet tall withoutthose?", and she opens her mouth with the classic"Oh no you didn't" look (smiling of course, withthat surprised smile)... and you dial it up to thenext level with "Oh, I'm sorry...Four footthree?"... and she hits you on the arm...
...and then she stops, puts her hand on yourarm, and says, "You know, you're funny"...
...what do you do?
YOU SAY, "YEAH, I KNOW"... in a serious tone.
Or "Don't try to use compliments to make melike you. It won't work. Go buy me a drink orsomething... I prefer gifts and money."
Or look down at her hand on your arm, lean backslightly, turn your head, and put your eyebrowstogether as if to say "Just WHAT do you thinkyou're doing touching me?!"
TURN IT UP, my friend!
You TURN UP the tension.
AMPLIFY it.
Keep it going.
If you keep amplifying the tension andattraction at each of these wonderful moments,good things will happen.
Good stuff.
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