FANTASY MASSAGE

By Kiran Nin
Hidden desires, an unfulfilled fantasy can add to an erotic massage.
A friend once told me that if he were to try a full body massage he'd want it to be done by a woman, who he hoped would massage every inch of his body ending it with a sexual intercourse. Such a massage he mused "is a fantasy come true". He however, also cautioned that he wouldn't really want his lover to give him the massage. "Nah! That would be a bad idea. But, I would not mind if it happens to me in a massage parlour with someone I don't know and don't have to know."
Fantasy is an integral part of massage. Shared in an erotic spirit it can enhance your self-esteem. It is another thing that in India, finding a massage parlour and a woman or man willing to bend to your desires is a near impossible task, various tales about Goa and Hampi not withstanding. Therefore, it is not a bad idea to let your girlfriend/ boyfriend, lover, wife or mistress give your fantasy a relaxing and enticing shape.
To start with don't be afraid to spell out your desire. Be open about what you want and how you want it done. One of the methods advised to overcome initial shyness and awkwardness is to practice breathing during the initial stages of an erotic massage. Regular, conscious breathing is a powerful way to enhance both erotic and relaxation message. If the receiving partner forgets to breathe, the massaging partner can remind him or her by breathing rhythmically and audibly. Some partners find that synchronising the breathing between the two of them leads to wonderful sensations. Just don't hyperventilate!!!
When the two of you are relaxed in each other's company, it is a good time to follow up on the desire that builds up in such a situation. This does not mean that you jump the person and shake yourself silly. Instead, try to prolong the pleasure. Use techniques of teasing and calming the body, instead of shooting to the pinnacle in one go. Patience and enjoyment are two cornerstones of a memorable erotic massage. After all, it is not everyday that you can take time off to enjoy it.
Fantasy is an integral part of massage. Shared in an erotic spirit it can enhance your self-esteem.Fantasy, you would be surprised can come true, provided you allowit to happento you.
While giving a massage to a man you can try the "climbing the mountain" massage that involves taking the dick in one hand and gently and sensually caressing it for about ten seconds. Having done that, give it one up-and-down stroke. Repeat the sensuous caressing for another ten seconds (perhaps using slow up-and-down strokes) and then give the it two quick up-and-down strokes.Repeat the caressing, then give it three quick strokes and so on. Continue until ejaculation or stop whenever you or your partner want to.
For women, it is important to remember that tastes vary from one woman to another. So it is important to stop and listen and be attentive to her needs and wants. Here you could try the one-and-a-two-and-a-three method of arousal. Start with inserting your first two fingers into her (before you do that however, make sure your nails are closely chopped and hands clean, though lubricated) then arch your thumb back 'hitch hiker' style and thrust in until your thumb rests on her clitoris. You can use a variety of thrusting and twisting motions in this position. Alternatively, you can vibrate your entire hand. Stop whenever the partner signals you to do so.
Fantasy, you would be surprised can come true, provided you allow it to happen to you.

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