Tuesday, February 28, 2006

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Saturday, February 11, 2006

Q: How can I turn Valentine's Day into a romantic date worth remembering?

A: I can suggest a number of tips for making the most of Feb. 14. The most important, however, is to make the holiday a celebration of your relationship.

First, be tuned in to your mate's picture of Valentine's Day. Some couples like to share a romantic dinner, some exchange greeting cards, others want sexy lingerie to be given and worn.

Valentine's Day may have evolved into the idea of men buying women lots of jewelry, flowers, candy, and lingerie, but I think a shared experience, where women give as much as men, is the better approach.

Still, talk about your romantic expectations beforehand to minimize disappointment. Differing ideas can cause a little heartbreak.
Next, create a plan. When I was dating my husband-to-be, one of my favorite Valentine's Day activities was to create a treasure hunt that had him driving here and there, finding little gifts and clues for where he was to go next. Ultimately he found himself at a destination where I had a nice meal, drinks, and romantic music playing.

But it shouldn't always be one spouse treating the other. Take turns. Alternate years as to who is in charge of setting the mood. That way, two sets of well-intentioned plans don't collide with each other, fouling up the outcome.

If you both work long hours, consider celebrating the weekend before. Valentine's Day falls on Feb. 14, but there's no reason to be restricted by that -- the point is to share a special time. If you have small children, put them to bed early and then exchange gifts, even if it's a single rose and a card.

For couples going through less than stellar times, such as a serious illness or work setbacks, what is most romantic is standing by each other. It is difficult for people to soothe themselves while offering support to their mates. Mature love does both, and I would like to see more Valentine's cards reflect a stand-by-your-mate, long-term sensibility.

As for sexual intimacy on the big night (or morning, or afternoon), put a note in your partner's briefcase, lunch box, or wallet listing a menu of sexual activities you would love to offer when you get together later. He or she can then return the note (complete with choices!) and you can go from there. Or consider using massage oils, sex toys (even a feather can be pretty exciting), or adult videos to add spark to the occasion.

Even if you struggle with low libido, don't downplay the importance of fantasies. Use these images in your mind to get you thinking in that direction on Valentine's Day. It is, after all, a day for love.


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Experts say unrealistic expectations, avoiding conflict after marriage can lead to disaster.
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Friday, February 10, 2006

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If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, then nothing else really matters. Looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion,personal loss, peer pressure from friends andfamily... none of it matters! On the other hand, if a women DOESN'T feelATTRACTION for a man, then nothing else matters inthat case either! You can't "talk" a woman into feelingATTRACTION, any more than you can "talk" a personwho hasn't eaten for three days out of feelinghungry. I mean, if you really wanted to be fancy, youcould learn to be a hypnotist and talk them intoit that way... But I'll tell you a little secret: Even thatisn't the best way to do things! (I actually knowseveral people who use this method of hypnotizingwomen... and I haven't met one yet who could usethis technique alone to get women... there'sALWAYS something else going on.) What I'm trying to say is that one day it hitme like a ton of bricks that ATTRACTION IS THE KEYTO EVERYTHING WITH WOMEN! If you don't know what it is or how to createit, you'll wander around trying differenttechniques... and probably never land on somethingthat works consistently. And once I realized this, all kinds of thingsthat didn't make sense before INSTANTLY made senseto me. All of a sudden I realized why women datedabusive jerks... ATTRACTION. I realized why women dated men who were clearlyusing them and cheating on them... ATTRACTION. And I also saw the FLIP SIDE! I realized why women pass up guys who arehonest, stable, attractive, and wonderful forlosers... ATTRACTION. Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which itreally is). If a woman is under the influence ofit, then she's gone. She'll do anything to getmore. If she's NOT under the influence, then YOU'REgone. Nothing you do will matter if she doesn'tfeel it. If you doubt what I'm saying, ask the next 10SUPER HOT women you see what they think of this.Read this newsletter to them, and watch theirreactions. You'll see. OK, now that you've heard a little bit more ofmy personal perspective, I'd like you to look backinto your life and think about all thosesituations with women that made no sense at all... Think about the women that you treatedwonderfully that passed you up for the jerks...and think about all the women "friends" you had...the ones who told you about how mean andinconsiderate their boyfriends were... while youlooked at them thinking "I would kill my ownmother for just one date with you". Is it all making sense now? THEY DIDN'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU! YOU WERE BEING A "NICE GUY" AND PROBABLY AWUSSY BOY, AND YOU HAD NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HAVINGTHE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT OF WHAT YOU WANTED! ANDWORSE YET, THERE WASN'T A DAMN THING YOU COULD DOABOUT IT! It's harsh to think about, but it's true. (Bythe way, if you don't do something to learn how tomake women feel ATTRACTION, then most likely, thisis going to keep happening to you for the rest ofyour life.) I have to point out one more thing. As Imentioned earlier, I think a lot of guys confusethe idea of being "attractive" with the emotioncalled ATTRACTION. You can make a woman feel an INCREDIBLEATTRACTION, even though you're not what mostpeople would think of as "attractive". Of course,you have to know how... The point is that if you're not tall, handsome,and dashing, you can LEARN how to make women feelthis wonderful emotion called ATTRACTION. It's a skill. It's taken me YEARS to be able toeven talk about this stuff in simple terms likethis that makes sense, and it's taken me the sametime to figure out how a regular guy like you orI can make women who we used to think of as "outof our league", feel ATTRACTION for us. How, you ask, can we do that? Well, you've read about the technique called"Cocky and Funny"... that's a part of it. But there are several other pieces of thepuzzle, from voice tone and body language, tospecific ways to touch a woman to get herphysically turned on, and everything in between.It's a system, and it all works together. There are two KEY aspects of learning how to besuccessful with women and dating:1) The Inner Game2) The Outer Game The INNER GAME is all about learning how toTHINK and how to manage your thoughts andemotions. It's also about understanding how andwhy attractive women feel that amazing emotioncalled ATTRACTION for some men, and not for MOSTmen. The OUTER GAME is all of the techniques, whatto say and such. Which is more important? Well, they're BOTH important. But what I notice is that most guys want tolearn the OUTER GAME first. In other words, they want pick-up lines, fancytricks, and other things. I can remember when I first started learningthis stuff. I had this idea in my mind that if I couldlearn how to get women to give me their numbersthat I'd be the MAN. Well, I learned that I can get just about anywoman's phone number in a few minutes. But guess what? Once I learned how to get women's phonenumbers, I ran into a much BIGGER issue... thewomen usually flaked out on me, didn't show up,etc. And the ones that DID show up were difficult. Nothing happened. I realized that there had to be more. And, as it turns out, there is... A LOT more,in fact. The REASON that the "Inner Game" is soimportant, is that attractive women don't judgeyou on your "pick-up lines". And just because a woman gives you her phonenumber or email address DOES NOT mean that sheFEELS anything inside (like ATTRACTION). Women don't DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for aman. ATTRACTION is something that happens on itsown, for its own reasons. Attraction Isn't A Choice! The way to cause women to feel ATTRACTION foryou is to UNDERSTAND how and why it works, andthen communicate in a way that makes it happen. In my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVDprogram, I spend several HOURS teaching "The InnerGame"... all those things that help you get theINSIDE together, so you can then get the OUTSIDEtogether. This stuff is CRITICAL to your success. I wouldn't have taken all the time, effort, andenergy to put this together unless I thought itwas important. If you want to overcome your challenges andreally take your success to the next level, thenyou owe it to yourself to check it out. It's here:http://www.DoubleYourDatingResources.com/e/10020/AdvancedSeries/

Monday, February 06, 2006

Friday, February 03, 2006

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Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Women Keep Themselves From Living The Love Life Of They're Dreams— And How To Make Sure You Avoid Every One Of Them... read more
MISTAKE #1: Betting YourLove Life On His “Potential” Do you know any women who want the man they're dating to behave differently? Of course you do. And just like me, I'm sure you have friends who date guys who don't have much going for them or who don't treat them very well. Somehow these women always have an excuse for the guy's shortcomings. What's going on here? It's actually very simple. Women (and men) don't base their choices of men on how "nice" or "good" someone is to them day-to-day. Women choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. And guess what? Some women will continue to put up with a guy that doesn't treat them very well. Sometimes for months or years... But why in the world would a woman do that!? Well, to put it simply, they confuse the strong attraction they feel for the guy with a deeper "connection". Women who do this are doomed to end up in failed relationships with the "wrong" guys. How do I know? Because I've seen it at least a hundred times... And because I've been this guy in the past myself. Thinking back on past dating and relationships I've had, I was selfish and didn't offer much. I'm amazed the women put up with me. But they did...all the while hoping that I would somehow change. The women I dated hoped I'd change. The only thing they saw in me that led them to want to keep me around was the "potential" they saw in me to share my feelings and communicate with them. The potential for something better and the potential for me to change and be a better lover, boyfriend, companion or whatever... The truth was, I was hopelessly bad at these things at the time. And more importantly, I wasn't even at a place in my life where I knew how to or was interested in developing a deep and committed relationship - with ANYONE. But deep down these women believed that if they tried hard enough, that it would make up for what was lacking. They believed that I could become someone else with them.... and that this would be easy for us both. Talk about a losing battle. It doesn't make a lot of "logical" sense... But until you accept that lots of women do this AND that YOU could be doing it on some level, you'll NEVER have the success with men that you choose and want.
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MISTAKE #2: Assuming You“Get” Men & Their Psychology Men are different from women. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a woman sees a man, she can very quickly pick apart certain things about his style, body language, status and character that will tell her all kinds of things about him. Lot's of women don't even consciously see that they do this because the process is so obvious and simple for them. But does the same apply for men? As you probably already know, men are generally more visual. As a result, they often don't understand non-verbal communication as well as women. And men often lack what women have in emotional awareness and "intuition". Women don't seem to remember this about men. So do men feel sexually attracted to w0men based just on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying this topic for years now, and talking to thousands of men and women, I can tell you that men have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks. Especially when it comes to longer term relationships. Looks just happen to be the most obvious way... But looks are NOT the most powerful. If you know how to use your body language AND communication correctly, you can make men feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see that hot, great looking guy that you got to know. But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this. And ANY woman can learn how...
MISTAKE #3: Pretending ToBe Something For A Man In the desire to please a man, women are constantly doing things to get a man's attention, to get him to like them or to make him more attracted or in love with them. Another HORRIBLE idea. Lots of women mistakenly think that doing unusual things to try and get a guys attention will make him magically see what a great catch they are and want to be with them. Wrong. Men YOU TRULY WANT are never attracted to the types of women who kiss up to them, make weak plays for affection or complain to get what they want... EVER. Don't get me wrong here. Things like being sexy for a man or encouraging him to share his feelings can be good, but it has to be genuine, unselfish, and most of all timely. You don't have to act like an "easy" woman for men to like you, and you certainly don't have to play like he's some gift to the Earth. Doing these things actually works to subtly, at an subconscious level, lower your social status with a man, which has EVERYTHING to do with how he sees you as a woman. So if you think that making him more attracted to you means "playing to the man's fantasies" from the start, think again. You'll never succeed by looking for a man's approval, finding your way into his heart through sex and not being yourself.
MISTAKE #4: Sharing How You“Feel” Too Early With Him Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they "feel" too early on. Listen... Attractive, single, successful men are rare. They get a LOT of attention from women. Most women don't realize this, but attractive men are being approached in one way or another all the time by women. And guess what? Attractive wen have usually dated a lot of women. That's right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything... It's a woman who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the man that you're just like one of those "clingy" stereotype women who want to rush into a relationship and can't control yourself from wanting a man to fulfill them and complete their lives. This does NOT spell ATTRACTION for a man. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #5: Misreading TheImportant “Signals” That Men Send Men are constantly communicating how they feel about a woman and giving away big secrets about themselves. Most women don't pay attention to these signals or recognize them for what they really are. The signals men send have 4 main levels:1) Social: Where the man is at in his own life - stability, confidence, direction2) Emotional: Whether or not he's "emotionally available"3) Physical: If he's attracted to you... and for what reasons4) Love State: If he's open to building and growing a relationship in the future The funny thing is that men send signals in these areas completely on accident. That's great news to women... Men can't help it! You need to learn to recognize these signals to get anywhere serious with a man.
MISTAKE #6: Relying OnYour Natural Ability ToJudge A Man's Character People aren't easy to figure out. Especially men. The last several years of my life I've spent hundreds of hours learning to understand people. I've studied peoples behavior, "inner psychology" and more specifically how they think and act when they're dating. From what I've seen, both men and women have their own secret ways of saying things. But you can only see these secret communications if you know what to look for. Women communicate with hints, body language, sarcasm, and flirting when they're first getting to know a man. They can either directly or indirectly let men know if they're open to something more serious. Men are different. Men generally communicate with sarcasm, humor, cockyness and other "indirect" displays of status. VERY RARELY will a man be able to honestly communicate to a woman whether or not he's ready or capable of developing a meaningful relationship. Aside from their sexual interests, men send very indirect signals about where they're at. If you don't know how to read through the signals men send, then you'll get the wrong message. Getting the wrong messages from men causes women more pain and heartache than any other issue around. You can avoid this pain if you learn to indentify a good man from a bad one.
MISTAKE #7: Expecting ARelationship To Make You Happy A mistake I've seen women make is thinking a guy will change her life and make her happy and fulfilled. And sure, there are situations and relationships where this happens. But those are the exceptions, not the rule. Nothing says "Run!" to a man faster than hearing or sensing that a woman immediately wants him to take care of her. And the men who ARE looking for this kind of situation aren't exactly the most healthy, loving, nurturing people out there. Think, "controlling, macho, or serious Mom Issues!" So let me be clear... I think it's important that people help fulfill each other in their lives, whether it's dating, a relationship, whatever. But if a woman communicates that she's looking for a guy to take care of her, complete her, make her whole, and all that kind of stuff - it has a VERY negative effect on what the man will think of her. It doesn't have to be spoken by the woman either... If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man will see it and pick up on it, regardless. This is arguably the worst thing a woman can do early on when dating a man. So what can you do as a woman? You can get the man interested and involved in your life in a more "natural" way, where he'll be motivated to make you care about your happiness and fulfillment on his own. This is the only way it really works for people - male or female. Self-motivation is much stronger than external motivation. But you have to know how to create this situation with a man... and it rarely happens by accident.
MISTAKE #8: Trying To “Convince”Him To Like You Or Love You What do most women do when they meet a man that they REALLY like... but he's just not that interested or isn't as serious? Right! They try to "convince" the man to feel differently. Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never, ever, ever. You cannot convince a man to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning". Think about it. If a man doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that by being "reasonable" with him? But we all do it. Men are the worst at this by the way. They're always complimenting women who don't like them and buying them gifts. Women like the behavior sometimes, but it NEVER makes the woman like the man. She might enjoy what she gets out of it, but it doesn't change the way she FEELS about him. When a man just isn't interested, women will try and chase, compliment, convince and do their best to change his mind with logical and rational approaches. Bad idea. Another one that will never work.
MISTAKE #9: Not KnowingWhat To Do In Each Type Of Situation A man has a clear idea of what he wants from a woman... And I don't mean just sex. I know, it might be hard to believe, but if you're out on a date with a man, he already has an idea of what he wants from you. And if you don't know HOW to find this out, and you just sit there looking at him and flirting, or trying things you think will make him want you, he won't help! If you don't know what to do in each situation, you'll probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help This is the biggest mistake of all. This mistake keeps women from EVER having the kind of success and finding the kind of man and relationship that they truly want. I know, you don't like to make yourself look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help. Hey, I've been there myself. Let me tell you a little about me. Over the last few years it's been hard to watch the women around me (even those I dated) struggle to understand the men they were attracted to or dating. It frustrated the hell out of me and I made the decision to do whatever it took to help the women I knew learn how to be successful with men and dating. Well, after a lot of hard work and doing all kinds of crazy things to learn the real-world truth about men and women, I finally figured things out for myself. I've read hundreds of books on psychology, human behavior, dating/relationship advice for men and women, love, attraction, communication, and more. The list goes on. I can now approach just about any situation with dating and feel confident and understand everything that's going on in an interaction. Best of all, I've been able to share my knowledge and help women become more successful with men and dating. It's been a very rewarding experience, and it's how I became fascinated with the female perspective in the dating world. I've helped women get rid of that sick, insecure feeling... the one you get when you're lonely, you've been hurt or lied to, or when a man you have feelings for says "he's not ready". You don't have to be afraid you might wind up being lied to, cheated on or that you'll end up alone.