Thursday, December 29, 2005

i plan to rite a book

its about bedroom tips

some tips dat will be available in my book

* An item in the frozen food section that will send shivers up and down your mates body in a very surprising way

* Something in your toiletry bag which doubles as an amazing lovemaking toy

* 2 novel ways to use mirrors in lovemaking that you probably never heard of

* Something in your children's toy chest that can liven up the act

* Find out what month is a guy's testosterone peak

* A great way to invigorate someone who is too tired for sex

* What colored light bulbs will intensify orgasms

* How to get firmer erections and prevent premature ejaculation without medicines

* The two things done in combination that will blow his mind

* A sexy lubrication tip that will have him begging for it each time

* What food and drink you should avoid the 24 hours before making love to avoid unpleasant odors

* One simple trick to make your wife scream in delight like never before

* Which smells can instantly increase penile blood flow by up to 40%

* Where and how to touch your guy when he is about to orgasm that will have him shoot off like a firecracker (even he probably doesn't know this trick)

* Ways to use your mouth on her that will drive her absolutely wild

* Something to do with your hands when you are entering her that will excite her even more

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BOOK YOUR ORDERS NOW

http://www.theromantic.com/lovemaking.htm

Wednesday, December 28, 2005

take some time to love yourself before u love others









yes, u cannot love/be loved by another
until u love u

Monday, December 26, 2005

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

is he trying to impress u ?

Here are some of the signs that a guy is
feeling the need to "impress" the woman that he'stalking to:

1) He tries to only say "cool" things, or thingsthat will "impress" the woman.

2) He acts nervous and stilted during theconversation... sometimes coming across as"formal".

3) He tries to figure out what the woman wantsto hear.

4) If he says something that the woman doesn'tlike, he "back-pedals" and tries to change whathe said to suit the woman.

5) He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't teasethe woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her....in other words, when a guy is talking to awoman that he "likes", he's usually on his "bestbehavior", and he's trying to "put his best footforward". To say it again, MEN FEEL A POWERFUL DRIVETO IMPRESS THE WOMAN THAT THEY "LIKE". And this drive to impress often makes themact UNNATURAL. There's your first hint, in fact...THE SECRET Remember at the beginning when I told you thatI was going to share a secret with you about howto impress women that not 1 in 1,000 men willfigure out on their own? Well, here it is: STOP TRYING. If you will just STOP TRYING to impress women,and do the things I'm teaching you instead, womenwill NATURALLY be "impressed" by you.TRYING TO IMPRESS A WOMAN DOESN'T IMPRESS HER. So let's break this down...WHY IMPRESSING WOMEN IS THE WRONG ROAD What's wrong with trying to "impress" women,anyway? To start with, EVERYTHING. When you intentionally try to impress a woman,you send the following messages on a "subtle" level:1) I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so Iwill try to "impress" you instead.2) I'm not comfortable enough around women to justact normal.3) I don't have a lot of experience with attractivewomen.4) I'm insecure.5) I don't know how to make women feel comfortablewith me. Ouch. But it's the truth. Women can TELL INSTANTLY when you're "trying". The conversation doesn't feel "normal", yourbody language is strange, and you can't seem tohave a regular conversation. Now of course, I've just described the way thatabout 99.9999% of men act when they're first talkingto a woman that they "like". Are you ready for a profound insight?

Here goes...MOST MEN DO THIS WITH MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMEN MOSTOF THE TIME. IN OTHER WORDS, IT'S OLD NEWS. IT'SBORING. IT'S PREDICTABLE. AND IT DOES NOT IMPRESSAT ALL.

The bottom line is that trying to impress awoman usually has the OPPOSITE effect. It not only makes you look like a nervous guywho can't make normal conversation... it alsobores the hell out of women.WHAT TO DO INSTEAD OK, so you're out having a cup of tea with abeautiful woman you just met a few days before... She asks you what you do for a living. Should you answer with:1) "Well, I'm an engineer for a software companythat makes sophisticated vector widget plottingalgorithms. I've been with them for three years,and I'm about to be promoted to ALGORITHMMANAGER."2) "I do stunt work. Have you ever seen it ina movie when a hot actor has to reveal his nakedass? That's my job."...? Well, it all depends on what your outcome is. If you want to try and IMPRESS the girl withyour cool high-tech job, then #1 will work justfine. Unfortunately, it won't impress her at all,and it will make you sound like a jackass who istrying to sound cool. If you want to ACTUALLY impress her, try #2. Most men don't have the BALLS to say somethinglike this when a woman asks a "serious" questionlike "What do you do?". If you REALLY want to make a long-lastingimpression, KEEP THE HUMOR GOING. She'll say "No, really... what do you do?". Answer with: "No, really. Haven't you everseen it when an actor needs a stunt ass? I meanhey... someone's got to do it". Now, I can't possibly go into all the reasonswhy it's a HUGE MISTAKE to try to impress a woman,or to feel like everything you say should be"impressive". There are MANY reasons for this. MORE IMPORTANTLY, there are a few things youcan do that will INSTANTLY impress a woman...and I mean REALLY impress her. But these things aren't OBVIOUS. The most IMPORTANT thing you can do toIMPRESS a woman is make her feel a powerfulemotional ATTRACTION for you. This feeling will stay with her long after youhave left and gone home. And it's the one thing that will make womenpursue YOU... and try to impress YOU. What's the best way to do this?1) Stop trying to IMPRESS women. Stop now.2) Go download a copy of my online eBook "DoubleYour Dating", and read it. It contains literallyDOZENS and dozens of great techniques for you touse that will make women feel ATTRACTION for you. And if you've already read my eBook, and you'reready to take your success to an entirely newlevel, then you must get yourself a copy of my"Advanced Dating Techniques" CD/DVD Program. This is the most complete, detailed, step-by-step system available for becoming the kind ofman that women want to be with. This program is GUARANTEED 100% by me to takeyou to the next level and beyond with women. Check out the free samples of both my eBookand my Advanced Dating Techniques Program...The eBook is here:http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/e/10006/eBook/The Advanced Series is here:http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/e/10006/AdvancedSeries/ I'll talk to you again soon. Your Friend, David D. --------------------------------------------------Copyright 2005 David DeAngelo CommunicationsInc., All Rights Reserved. Double Your Datingand David DeAngelo are trademarks of DavidDeAngelo Communications Inc. You agree to all ofthe following by accepting and reading this: Youunderstand this to be an expression of opinionsand not professional advice. It is only to beused for personal entertainment purposes. You aresolely responsible for the use of the ideas,concepts, and content and hold David DeAngeloCommunications Inc. and all members and affiliatesharmless in any event or claim. If you are underthe age of 18, please go to the link at the endof this e-letter to stop receiving it or sendmail to "DDMI" 3960 Howard Hughes Pkwy, 5th FloorLas Vegas, NV 89109.--------------------------------------------------.

“How To Tell If She’s Ready To Be Kissed”

I used to have no idea if a woman was ready to be kissed.
I could be sitting there talking to her, thinking to myself “Wow, her lips really look nice...” but I didn't know what to do next. This would often leave me kissless, and many times kissless for good, as I didn't get another chance.
Here's what I do now:
If I've been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she's ready to be kissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make a comment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of it.
If she smiles and likes this, I'll reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time I also glance down at her lips and back up to her eyes a couple of times. If she lets me keep touching her hair, I know that she's ready to be kissed.
By using “The Kiss Test” I've been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven't given her anything she can object to. I now have a way of knowing if she's ready to be kissed that NEVER gets me rejected—and I know within 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to figure out...
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wanna talk about Sex ?

I'm a little worried - it seems that for some reason the word has gotten out that I'm good at talking about Sex.

Let me qualify that - the word seems to have gotten out that if you want someone to speak to your youth group or young adults - that I'm good at talking about Sex.

In my last church we had a four week series on the topic - we called it 'Sex Fest' (the service was called 'Festival' - hence the 'Fest' part).

The service was aimed primarily at 14 to 30 year olds and we had a lot of fun with it. In fact some of what we did bordered on irreverent (it got pretty wacky) but the aim of it was to get people talking about a topic that Church often largely ignores - except when its says 'don't do it'.

'Let's talk about sex, baby
Let's talk about you and me
Let's talk about all the good things
And the bad things that may be'
- Salt-N-Pepper

I think churches should take Salt-N-Pepper's advice.
We had a lot of fun, but in the process took a good long look at what our culture says about sex (the truths and lies), what the bible says about it, the realities and pressures that we face with it, some of the health issues etc etc etc

Anyway - since that time I've had calls from a number of people who've heard about it and wanting me to do something similar in their churches/camps/youth groups.
I've got another one in the next week or so and I thought I'd open up the topic for discussion here and ask you if you've seen any creative ways of teaching young people about Sex?

Have you seen any good resources? Any ideas or thoughts? Anything goes (well almost). Looking forward to your thoughts and experiences in comments.

Update - here is a starting point that I've already found. It is four MP3s of a record (remember them?) from the 1970's of a Christian educator. They are quite hilarious. Here are the links - its worth the download.

- How Babies are Born- Girls and Menstruation- The Problem with Growing Boys- The Marriage Union

Copy pasted from an article i read