Monday, September 17, 2007

The way to take this idea of “slowing down”, and multiply its effectiveness… is to add a simple twist to it.This twist is to actually STOP once in awhile… and GO BACKWARDS a step.

In fact, I call this technique “Two Steps Forward, One Step Back”.And here’s why it works:For a woman, arousal (or being “turned on”) is all about ANTICIPATION.Men get turned on instantly… but women usually take longer. And they ENJOY the process of getting turned on more and more over time.

If you know this simple fact… and you know how to create MENTAL ANTICIPATION… you will know the secret of getting any woman aroused sexually.Here’s how to do it…Next time you’re with a woman, tell yourself that you’re going to STOP at every “base”, and take a step BACK.

Let’s say you’ve kissed her for the first time.STOP.Lean back.Smile at her.Start talking again.And don’t touch her for several minutes.Now, why’s that?Because she’s going to be thinking to herself “Why did he stop?” and “Is there something wrong” and “Is he going to kiss me again?”.

And the more she thinks and wonders, the more TURNED ON she’s going to get.When you do start kissing again, put your arms around her… but DON’T TOUCH any of her “private” areas.

Touch her shoulders. Touch her arms. Pull her close. But DON’T TOUCH the “R Rated” zones.And then… you guessed it…STOP.Lean back.Smile at her again.Lay close to her with your arm around her… very still.

During the time you were kissing her and touching her, she will be thinking “Why isn’t he trying to touch me all over?” and “I’d better be ready to stop him”.But you didn’t touch her in any of those places. And she didn’t get to “stop you”.And now that you’ve stopped, she’s thinking even more… and getting even MORE aroused.

Are you learning something?Good.Now go and use this technique, and see for yourself how powerful a simple idea like this one can be…Now, I just shared a very simple… but very POWERFUL technique.And, as I mentioned, it is “counter intuitive”. It’s not something you probably would have figured out “on your own”.

Well, just like that one idea was both counter intuitive… AND easy to learn… all of the steps to building Sexual Confidence and Sexual Experience are basically the same.You can learn them.Quickly.Easily.No hassle.Oh, and it’s FUN to learn them. It’s not only interesting, it’s also wonderfully challenging. The more you learn, the more fun it is… and the more you WANT to learn…

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