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OK, so GET THIS...
I'm reading through some of the bazillion emails I get every week, and I come across one ofthe best emails that I've read in a LONG time.
Are you ready for the interesting part?
It's from a MARRIED GUY.
Yep, you read that right. He's married.
He reads the newsletters and uses the things helearns to improve his marriage. Go figure.
This guy was able to explain in a fewparagraphs a concept and technique that Ipersonally use, but have been unable to actuallyexplain and verbalize well.
I wish I would have written what you're aboutto read, but I didn't (but I'm still a cool guybecause I wrote what came before and after it).
Check this out...
***Conversation Technique***
Dave,
I'm still having great success with a rekindledmarriage using you're Tips on my wife. Thanks amillion. Listen, I keep reading over and over inthe MailBags guys wanting to know how to start,then keep a conversation going with women. I workfor a major oil company and have been through manyof there training courses on dealing with people.One particularly interesting course was on"Information Seeking". For this we first practicedpicking up on "Key words or phrases" the subjectsaid. For instance, I'll try and give an exampleusing c&f even though you wouldn't use thisprofessionally on the job. Lets say you see thisgreat looking chick on the street and you tellher, "That's an unusual looking dress you'rewearing. Was that made out of a shower curtain?"She says, "Your mean! No, I bought this from theOld Navy store." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, soyou're in the Navy, huh?" "No silly. You know, thebig store over at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh,so you like going to the Mall and buying strangelooking dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buythem also?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers andmy dress is very popular I'll have you know!" Keyphrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends areneat dressers in a popular dress like you'rewearing then I'm going into the shower curtainclothing business..." I know, this is a lameexample but the lessons are this.
1) You start a conversation with however you wantthen pick out key words or phrases from what theperson says.
2) You repeat them in what you say then listen fornew key words in there next response.
3) You add a little something new into theconversation REPEATING there words you're using asKey words or phrases. This tells them you'relistening, even though you're turning thingsaround to be c/f in this situation.
Once we learned to keep someone talking for 5minutes, then 15 minutes the company actuallyhired total strangers from a job solicitingcompany to come and be our subjects. While beingvideotaped we had to get the person talking andkeep them talking for 30 minutes. One importantnote: If a person brings up something personal orwhatever, they wouldn't have mentioned it if theydidn't want to talk about it. These are great toKey in on. My subject mentioned she was goingthrough a divorce and her ex-husband was a totaljerk. I keyed in on this and it's amazing what atotal stranger will tell you once you build alittle rapport. When watching the video you pickup on mistakes or you see something different youcould have said. You also pick up on Key words andphases you missed. It just takes a littlepractice. This is just one example of how you canstart a conversation and keep it going. Hopefullyit can be of help to you're readers.
JTM Texas
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Awesome.
This is an EXCELLENT description of how to keepa conversation going, keep it interesting andunpredictable, and talk about ANYTHING and have itbe fun.
Read it again.
Now, let me sprinkle a little magic dust onthis and tell you how I use this techniquepersonally.
When I'm having a conversation with a woman,I'm not just listening for ANY key word... I'mlistening for a particular KIND of key word (orwords).
I'm always on the alert for any words orphrases that can be twisted, turned around,misinterpreted, and misconstrued (is that a word?)in one of a few particular ways...
Namely, in a way that says she's stupid, ditzy,sexually crazed, or acting suspicious.
For instance, in your example above, yousuggested the following:
"That's an unusual looking dress you're wearing.Was that made out of a shower curtain?" She says,"You're mean! No, I bought this from the Old Navystore." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, so you're in theNavy, huh?" "No silly. You know, the big storeover at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh, so youlike going to the Mall and buying strange lookingdresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy themalso?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers and mydress is very popular I'll have you know!" Keyphrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends areneat dressers in a popular dress like you'rewearing then I'm going into the shower curtainclothing business..."
Good. Nice one.
Now, let's dial it up a little bit...
She says, "No, I bought this from the Old Navystore..."
Instead of just keying into "Navy" and saying,"Oh, so you're in the navy, huh?", why not take itto the next step and actually MAKE FUN of her.
"Oh, so is this what guys used to wear in theNavy a long time ago... in the OLD Navy?"
Now you're BUSTING on her as well, AND it'sfunny.
She says, "No silly. you know, the big storeover at the Mall."
You might try, "What kind of MALL are YOUshopping at? And do your girlfriends buy dresseslike that one too?"
Again, you're hinting that she has funky tasteand she shops in weird places.
She says, "My girlfriends are neat dressers andmy dress is very popular I'll have you know!"
You could go with, "Oh, you have girlfriends?You have more than one? Do they all know that youthink of them as a girlfriend? Or is one of themthe special one? By the way, if you have cutegirlfriends, then I think you and I are going toget along VERY well."
...are you with me here?
What I'm doing is NOT ONLY looking for keywords to latch onto, but I'm ALSO looking for waysto spin them to make fun, tease, and subtlysuggest various kinds of "racy" topics.
When done in a funny way, it's magic.
My very favorite technique with women is "Cocky& Funny". If you want to learn to master it, makesure you go and check THIS out right now:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/CockyComedy
Once upon a time, a guy I know very well wentinto a nightclub.
He was talking to a girl at that club forawhile when she said, "Well, I'm getting tired. Ithink it's time for me to go home."
The guy answered "Go HOME?! I just met you. I'mnot going HOME with you!"
She said, "No, I mean I'M going home. I'mtired."
He shot back, "Maybe you don't hear me. I'm notgoing home with you, so don't even ask anymore."
She said, "No, that's not what I'm saying..."
He replied, "And besides, I'm sure my place isnicer than yours... so if anything, you're cominghome with ME."
This went on and on for about an hour or so.
And you guessed it, she went home with him.
I saw it happen with my own two eyes. Anotheroff-the-wall (but pretty funny) example of this isa story that a good friend of mine told me aboutone of his friends.
His friend was talking to a girl at a club andshe was talking about what kinds of things sheenjoyed doing in her spare time.
She said, "...I like to go clubbing..."
He came back with, "Oh, like baby seals?"
lol... Now, that might not get a girl to comehome with you, but it's damn funny. Love it.
This technique is GREAT for keeping aconversation fresh, fun, unpredictable, and FUNNY(if you know how to do it just right).
Use it.
Right now you're probably thinking to yourself:
"Wow, that's really great. I sure wish therewas a resource available that could show mehundreds of great ideas like that... so I couldknow exactly what to do from when I first meet awoman to the first date... all the way up until weget physical and beyond..."
Guess what?
It's right here:
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...and it's absolutely JAM PACKED with so manygreat, interesting, and useful ideas for meetingand dating more women, you'll be shaking your headwhen you're listening to it. Guaranteed.
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I'll talk to you again soon!
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. When you're really ready to take your successwith women to the NEXT level, then take a fewminutes and look through the programs that I'vecreated to help you learn how to meet women. Youcan see all them (including some great video clipsfrom the different programs) right here:
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