Women like to SAY ONE THING, but when the time comes around to actually ACT, they do something TOTALLY DIFFERENT.
I could go into an essay on why this is, butfor the purposes of this discussion, the mostimportant reason has to do with EMOTIONS. Women tend to SAY what they THINK when they'reasked a question. But they tend to ACT on their EMOTIONS when anactual SITUATION presents itself. Here's an example: You meet a woman, and get her number. You callher up. She agrees to meet you the next day fora cup of coffee. The next day comes around, and shedoesn't show up. You call her. Something came up,and she just couldn't make it. Ever been there? What happened? (And doesn't it piss you off whenwomen ALWAYS seem to do this? Me too.) Well, what HAPPENED is when you were talking toher on the phone, coffee the next day sounded fine. But when the next day showed up, something elsethat was more interesting came up, and she didn'tFEEL like meeting you anymore. Or maybe she just decided that she DIDN'T FEELlike meeting you when she woke up the next day. Whatever. But it PROBABLY had something to do with hernot FEELING the same way anymore.
Now, if you're a man, you hear something likethis and say "She lied. She said she would be there,and she didn't show up. She's a liar." Or you say "Women who do this lack integrity." Or even "Women are FLAKY!" Of course, ALL OF THESE ARE TRUE! lol... no, no, no. Just kidding. Well, I'm notkidding 100%, but I'm kidding. The point that I'm trying to make here is thatwhen a woman says one thing, then does another, shesees that as being perfectly OK, because she's"just following her feelings".
But from a MAN'S point of view, if a woman saysone thing, then does another, she's either a liar,being flaky, or doesn't have integrity. Here's the point: Women aren't going to change "how they feel"about this topic anytime soon. So us guys are basically left with two mainoptions in a situation like this one:1) Keep banging our heads against the wall andexpecting women to change, and start showing upwhen they say they will.2) Learn how to make women FEEL like they want toactually show up for the meeting, so when theywake up the next day, they SHOW UP. Get it? Good. Now let's talk about the REAL topic of thisnewsletter...
WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN. Of course, in my usual style, I'm going to putan interesting twist on this concept. I'm going to argue that women will SAY thatthey "look for" one thing, but they actuallyRESPOND to something completely different. All guys know that women seem to be "naturally"attracted to things like fame, wealth, Brad-Pitt-handsomeness, height, etc. But I've now realized something that isactually pretty profound when you REALLY get it. I now believe that women DON'T KNOW what theyare ACTUALLY responding to.
In other words, these things like money andfame trigger EMOTIONS inside of women. And if you're NOT rich or famous or naturallyhandsome, you can get the same kinds of responsesfrom women if you learn how to TRIGGER THESAME EMOTIONS. So, in the end, what women are REALLY "lookingfor" is a man who triggers their ATTRACTION. Of course, a woman will never SAY this to you. If you ask a woman what she's looking for,she'll say "I'm looking for a nice, honest guy whois successful and cute".
But if she actually MEETS this guy, and he justhappens to be a WUSSY who acts needy and clingy,then she's NOT going to be into him. In this case, she won't respond to the guy thatshe's "looking for" by being attracted to him. Andit won't work out. On the other hand, if this same woman meets aguy who ISN'T what she "thinks" that she's "lookingfor", but he triggers her ATTRACTION EMOTION,then it's all over.
It DOESN'T MATTER if he's rich or handsome,because he's done something that TRUMPS thesethings. It has taken me a long time to actually get tothe point where I BELIEVE this at a deep level. Andthe REASON I believe it is because I've never beenthe type of guy that women "approach". I have friends that are tall and handsome... andwhen we go out, women start conversations with them. Before I learned what I know now, women neverfelt that powerful, GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for methat they do for my taller, handsome friends. But NOW, now that I know how to use my bodylanguage and other communication to trigger theEMOTIONS in a woman, it's COMPLETELY different.
I get responses from women that I actuallyconsidered IMPOSSIBLE before. And it's not because I grew 5 inches or becamemore handsome. It's because I KNOW SOMETHING that most guysjust don't know. As you've read in these newsletters, there arecertain techniques, like being Cocky & Funny,teasing women, never acting like a Wussy, etc. thatwill help you be successful as well. Use them. Use what you learn.
There's a BIG difference between what women are"looking for" and what they RESPOND TO. Don't letanyone tell you any different. AND, if you're reading this right now, and you'resaying to yourself "OK, it's time that I stoppedwasting time screwing around, and I GOT MY BUTT INGEAR and learned how to meet women", then you needto do yourself a HUGE favor. You need to TAKE ACTION, and get yourself a copyof my Advanced Dating Techniques program. It's taken me about FIVE YEARS to find, test,and develop the concepts that I teach in thisprogram... and I guarantee that it will foreverchange the way you view the topic of women anddating. More importantly, it will help you walk out yourfront door, and meet more attractive women startingIMMEDIATELY.
And I'm not kidding. When you get it, you'll be stunned. You'll probably lock yourself in your house forthree days and listen to the whole thing. But when you finally unlock your door, and walkback out into the world, your interactions withwomen will be VERY different. I think I've said enough. Go read all about it, and check out the freeaudio and video samples here:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//AdvancedSeries/?cid=ABZZZ3&lid=2 And if you haven't downloaded your copy of myoriginal eBook "Double Your Dating", then you needto do that immediately. It's the introduction toall of my concepts, and it's the perfect primer toget you ready for my Advanced Dating Techniquesprogram. Details and free samples are here:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//eBook/?cid=ABZZZ3&lid=3 And I'll talk to you again soon. Your Friend, David D.P.S. I've just put the finishing touches on my newMobile Dating Tips program... now you can get tipsfrom me sent right to your cell phone in textmessage form. Many of these tips can't be found in any of my programs or anywhere else... I came up with a TON of brand new tactics exclusively forthis program and you NEED to hear them. Go herefor details, and to sign up:http://www.DatingTechniques.com//m/mobile?cid=ABZZZ3&lid=4
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
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