If you ever hear a woman say the words, "He'snice", you can pull out all the money you have onyou and bet that she's not ATTRACTED to the guyshe's talking about. Women don't use the word "Nice" to describe menthat they're FEELING it for. So, why would you want to use the "usual niceguy routine"? What? You want to make SURE shenever feels anything other than friendship foryou? Hmmmmm. What you're telling me here is that you knewthis super-babe four years ago, but the "nice guy"rap didn't make anything happen then... so you'rethinking that if you pour it on twice as thick, itmight work better this time? Hmmmmm. Here's a good rule of thumb: If your behavior isn't getting you theconsistent results that you'd like to get, CHANGEIT. Do ANYTHING different. I'm serious here. If what you're doing isn't working, DOSOMETHING ELSE IMMEDIATELY! And, if you've FOUND SOMETHING that works, thenKEEP DOING IT! (Hint: In case you haven't figured it out, Ithink you should ix-nay the ice-nay uy-gay outine-ray.) And, I don't think it's a coincidence that thewords "nice guy" translate into "ICE-NAY UY-GAY"in Pig Latin. Read that again, because it was pretty funny. In summary, I think you might want to stickwith the cocky & funny personality. It's workingfor more than a few guys out there, and it canwork for you (as you've seen). Also, it sounds like you could use a STRONGdose of a type of medicine that you can ONLY getby going HERE... and I'm not kidding, so check itout:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/OnBeingAMan/?cid=ZZVHLZ&lid=2&ll=1 On a side topic... From the way I talk, you might start to get theidea that I'm against being nice to women. Quite the contrary. I think that it's great to be nice to women. Just do it in a way that doesn't make themthink of you as a "nice guy." Oh, that sounds interesting. So, the question is: How can I be nice withoutmaking her see me as a super-wussy who would pay ahundred dollars just to have one quick dig throughher dresser? I just figured out how to say this in a simple,concise way... so listen up: BE COCKY & FUNNY, AND BUST HER BALLS WITH YOURWORDS, BUT BE NICE TO HER WITH YOUR BEHAVIOR. Wow, that was cool. Nice and simple. So, here are a few examples:1) Tell her that she walks slower than your mom,then open all doors for her.2) Tell her that she's too uptight and she needsto settle down because it's annoying, then rub hershoulders.3) Give her a hard time about her driving, thenkiss her. Are you with me? One of the concepts that I talk about in mybook, "Double Your Dating", is ALWAYS SEND MIXEDMESSAGES. Why would you want to send mixed messages? Because it's interesting. Because if it's done right, it's attractive. Because attractive women are fascinated by itwhen it's mixed with a cocky & funny personality. I hope that those reasons work for you. 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