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.I'm considering investing in your program, but Ihave a question for you before I do. Essentially,I'm no longer looking to hook up with women leftand right. In fact, I think I've met "the one,"but I'm having trouble making her realize this.I've been pursuing her for about five months(during part of which time she was away at school,but we kept in regular contact, at first throughe-mail and, later, over the phone), and I get thesense that she's very guarded about relationships.She's *very* goal oriented (which is one of themany things I love about her, BTW), and thereforevery busy, and - I suspect - she's been burned inthe past, relationship wise. At any rate, on acouple of occasions, it felt to me as if thingswere moving forward, and then she backpedaled;perhaps she "got spooked," and took a big stepback to protect herself. Most recently, we wereout for the first time since she finished school,and - insofar as I was able to determine, I wasgetting the green light all night: at a movie, Islipped my arm around her and she leaned in,resting her head on my shoulder; later, we were ata club for a band, and when we were ready toleave, she reached across the table and held myhand for a while; on the way back to the car, itwas pretty chilly, and when she complained aboutthe chill, I stepped over and hugged her. Sheresponded by stepping into it: she pressed herface hard into my shoulder, and stepped into fullbody to body contact - hip to hip, shoulder toshoulder and everything in between. When we gotback to her place, I moved to kiss her and sheshied away such that it would have been*extremely* awkward for me to actually do so.At any rate, we've gotten together since (in fact,I offered to cook dinner for her, and she somehowmaneuvered it around such that I was *her* guest,and she cooked for me) and we talked a while. As Isaid above, I think she got a little spooked. Shespecifically said that she thought therelationship could've evolved into somethingromantic, but that it hasn't, and she wasn't surewhy. At this moment, she says she doesn't believeit will. We remain *very* close friends, but Istill believe she's the one, and I've told herthat I'm still going to pursue this, and she'skeen on still spending time together (for her, fornow, as close friends).My question is this: do you believe your programcan aid me in turning her around on this? If so,why?Thanks,B. >>>MY COMMENTS: OK, sit down for this. Hold on to something tight because I'm going toyell at you for your own damn good... YOU ARE TOTALLY MISSING WHAT'S GOING ON! THIS WOMAN ACTUALLY LIKES YOU, AND YOU'RESCREWING IT ALL UP BY ACTING LIKE A NEEDY WUSSBAG! If you were closer, I'd slap you myself. DUH! Whew. Let me calm myself. As you know, I don'tusually get so worked up. That makes threeexclamation marks in one email, and I haven't evenstarted lambasting you proper yet. (What islambasting, anyway? And is that how you spell it?It's such a great word. I really should look it upand find out.) OK, I'm calm. NOW, let's have a little talk here... The reason why this kind of situation bothersme is at least twofold:1) Because I've been in it myself about abazillion and a half times, and it sucks to bescrewing something up and not even realize thatyou're doing it.2) I can tell from your email that you actuallylike this girl A LOT, and that she's probably afantastic woman... and I hate to see you workingso hard against yourself... and screwing this upwhen it's right there in front of you for thetaking. Before I tell you all the reasons why you mostDEFINITELY should invest in my Advanced DatingTechniques program, let me give you a few pointersthat might help you STOP screwing this up in themeantime. Or, if the fear of a verbal beating has alreadyconvinced you, then don't even think about it...just go here and get yourself a copy:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/AdvancedSeries/ OK, back to the basics. Let's take this from the top... At the very beginning of your email, you saidsomething that basically telegraphed EXACTLY whatwas going on here... You said, "...I think I've met "the one," butI'm having trouble making her realize this. I'vebeen pursuing her for about five months..." You're having trouble making her REALIZE this? You've been PURSUING her? Do you assume that at some point within theNEXT five months that she's going to wake up oneday and feel a powerful ATTRACTION for you becauseyou like to chase her around and tell her how youfeel about her? Normally I'd make fun of you here, and tell youthat you don't get it... blah blah blah. But for some reason I feel like I just have tolay things out for you directly. Look, man... the reason why she's telling youthat she "doesn't know why it hasn't evolved intosomething romantic" is that she doesn't FEEL IT. She doesn't FEEL IT. Get it? SHE DOESN'T FEEL IT! She doesn't feel ATTRACTION for you. And you can't CONVINCE her to feel it bychasing her around and telling her how you "feel"about her. Attraction, as I always say, ISN'T A CHOICE. You're acting like most guys who think thingslike: "If she only knew how I felt about her,she'd feel the same way" and "If I keep pursuingher, she'll eventually see how much I love her"etc. Well guess what? AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN, HOMEY. Right now you are playing what is referred toas a "losing game". Think of it this way. If you stop on the wayhome from work every day and buy a lottery ticket,you'll win once in awhile. Hell, you might even belucky one day and win big. But your chances SUCK. You're probably going to lose a LOT more thanyou win over time. Like I said, you COULD win big. There is achance. But you probably won't. And I meanprobably with a BIG P. I refer to the way that you're acting as "Beinga Wussy" (that's the technical term... made it upmyself). When you act like a Wussy, you do things like:- Pursue- Cling- Share "feelings"- Act submissive- Seek approval- Pine away This is WUSSY behavior. It's distinctly FEMININE in nature. When guys act like this, they're getting intouch with their inner little girl (and she needsa spanking in the worst way). And are you ready for the WORST, WORST part? When you act like this around a woman (andESPECIALLY a "goal oriented" woman who's probablysmart and powerful) they CANNOT feel the emotionof ATTRACTION towards you. Women aren't attracted to Wussies. This is a UNIVERSAL truth. And, by the way that you describe yourrelationship with this woman, SHE REALLY WANTS TOBE ATTRACTED TO YOU! She's trying, man. And she probably KNOWS that you'd be a greatguy to be in a relationship with... but she justdoesn't FEEL IT... so she holds back. I'm sure sheWISHES that she could be attracted to you. I'llbet you money. Look, you need to STOP acting like a nice,friend guy Wuss IMMEDIATELY if you want this toturn into something. You're probably beyond help with thisparticular woman, but I'm going to give you a fewideas JUST IN CASE...1) Stop calling her all the time (if you do), andstop spending so much time with her.2) Start dating other women IMMEDIATELY, and makesure she knows about it.3) Stop being all lovey with her, and don't tellher how you "feel about her" anymore. Stop it.4) Accept that you will probably be friends withher forever, and start acting that way.5) Don't try to kiss her or be physical with herat ALL anymore until you understand what you'redoing. Remember, what you're doing ISN'T WORKING. If you do these things that I've described, youwill probably have the best chance of turning thisaround. NOW, the next thing you need to do is what youasked me about in your email... GET MY ADVANCEDDATING TECHNIQUES PROGRAM. You need a new perspective on this entiresituation. And you need a new perspective onwomen. You're obviously a smart guy, and once youbegin to understand how ATTRACTION works forwomen, you'll change how you behave COMPLETELY. Total transformation. And the best part is that you won't be changinghow you act and just "faking it". You'll changehow you act because you GET IT. It's really fantastic to HELP a woman feel thatmagical ATTRACTION for you that she REALLY WANTSTO FEEL. And it's also amazing to know exactly how toget physical with a woman without having to dealwith the awkward "shy away from the kiss"situation that you described in your email. I guarantee that when you listen to and/orwatch this program, it will FOREVER CHANGE how youthink about and act around women. Period, end ofstory. Here, let me give you the hard-sell... I had to learn all of this stuff the hard way.I've been right where you are many, many, MANYtimes in my life. It sucks. I know it does. The reason why my program will be good for youis because it was good FOR ME FIRST. I teach whatI do. And because I also believe that you should onlyhave to pay for something that you find value in,I'll send it to you:- At my risk.- In a plain package so your mom doesn't knowwhat's inside.- Free for you to try for a MONTH. I'm betting that once you have it in your hotlittle hands that I couldn't pry it away from youwith a crowbar. I'm serious. OK, enough of me trying to convince you ofsomething you already know. Go watch the newestvideo preview clips and get it here:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/AdvancedSeries/ ...and if you're reading this right now and youhaven't yet downloaded your copy of my onlineeBook "Double Your Dating", I have something totell you... My eBook is the foundation for everything thatI teach in these newsletters, and it's thefoundation for my Advanced Dating TechniquesProgram. Guys are surprised when they listen to theAdvanced Program, because I don't just rehashDouble Your Dating and talk about a few newtricks. The Advanced Series is almost all new stuff. And you need to read Double Your Dating TOO,because it contains a lot of valuable materialthat sets the stage for everything else. It'shere, go download it now:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/eBook/ I'll talk to you again soon! Your Friend, David D.P.S. Do NOT forget to go and look at the otherprograms I've created to help you learn how tomeet women. You can see all of them right here:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/Catalog/P.P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphsmax.2) Tell me what's working for you before you askyour question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuffis great" and "I don't need to tell you how wellyour stuff works" comments, but the fact is that IDO need to hear all of the specifics... becausethis helps other guys to see what's working indifferent situations.3) If you have a Success Story, write "SuccessStory" in the subject line of the email. I readthese first.4) At the end of the email, give me your initialsand tell me where you're from.5) Send it to me at:SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com ...don't just hit "reply" to this email. Thanks!--------------------------------------------------Copyright 2006 David DeAngelo Marketing Inc. DavidDeAngelo and Double Your Dating are trademarks. Byreading and accepting this newsletter you agree toall of the following: You understand that this issimply a set of opinions (and not advice). This isto be used for entertainment, and not consideredas "professional advice". 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