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Hi Mate...From the Land Downunder... I think we'll just callyou "Son of Croc Dundee."Here's an interesting observation, a success storyand a question.The observation.In the late eighties/ early nineties at the heightof the feminist "revolution" in Oz there was aconstant refrain from women ... "Where have allthe men gone?" It was in the media, and womenspoke about this 'ailment' continually. Well theshort answer to this question is that they (thewomen) had neutered them (the men) ... or ratherthe men had allowed themselves to be neutered.What you're doing here is important. Single handedyou're giving men back their self respect.The success story.I ran a version of that personal ad. The phonedidn't stop running hot for two weeks. If I hadwings I would fly. I might do it anyway.The question.Looking back on my two most recent (didn't workout) relationships that were pre "Son of CrocDundee" I noticed a pattern. The 'didn't workout' part happened when I was under some pressureand the wimpy part of me emerged.Now... everyone has problems, and I'm usuallystrong enough to handle them. However, within thelaw of the "Son of Croc Dundee" should you neverbe "weak"? Hard call for a sensitive soul. What'sthe balance here?What say you Maestro?K.P.S. AND... to those who haven't bought the book.Run, jump, fly, swim as fast as you can to thatdownload page. It'll be the best investment you'vemade since you were 13 and read that copy ofPenthouse that you'd found under your Father'sbed.>>>MY COMMENTS: You know... you say that back in the late 80sand early 90s women were asking "Where have allthe men gone?"... Well, I think that women are saying it morethan EVER now. I'm going to handle this in two parts. First Iwant to address your initial comments, then I'dlike to answer your question. So first, yourcomments... One of my best friends told me about atelevision show he saw that featured a woman whowas talking about male/female relationshipdynamics. This woman was basically saying that a lot ofmen in this day and age were raised by singlemothers, and that this has led to more and moremen acting like, well, girly-men. And, of course,single women aren't looking for wussy-girly-men...they're looking for "real" men. I personally find this idea very intriguing. When I watched the movie "Crouching Tiger,Hidden Dragon"..., I saw something veryinteresting. Part of the plot revolved around aforbidden-love relationship. It's a common "movie"theme, and it occurs in real life often as well.Here's a summary... In this movie, there was a troubled teenagegirl who was arranged to be married by her family.Of course, she didn't love the guy, and wanted tobe free to find a love on her own. As it turned out, she was also secretly asuper-duper martial arts bad-ass. One day, while on a trip through the desert,her entourage was attacked by a group of bandits.The leader of the criminals was a Johnny Depplooking Asian guy. He rode up, stole her fancyhair-comb, and rode off. Being the feisty girl that she was, she jumpedon a horse and rode into the desert after the bad(but cute) boy. They wound up fighting, wrestling and beatingthe hell out of each other. The long and the short of it is... he abductedher, tied her up, and hid her away in a cave. Andsomehow, right in the middle of it all, they beganMAKING OUT. Five years ago I would have watched this wholesequence and said, "Well, it doesn't make anysense, but it makes for a nice story..." But now that I understand the illogical natureof attraction and sexual chemistry, I see atotally different picture. When the cute bad-boy took off, and she rodeafter him and started fighting with him, therewere two different levels of communicationhappening. On the surface, she was chasing him to get herhair comb back. But looking at it from a different perspective,and looking at a deeper level, SHE HAD FINALLY META MAN WHO WAS AN INTERESTING CHALLENGE... and sheresponded instantly and powerfully by feelingmagnetically attracted to him in a way that causedher to leave her group behind and risk her life. And the fighting that occurred can be seen asjust plain fighting... or, if you understand male-female dynamics, you can also see that on adifferent level they were FLIRTING. The tensionthat was building between them was also SEXUALtension. She had finally met "a real man", and sheresponded powerfully to him. Not long after they fell for each other, thebad-boy started to say some downright sensitivethings (I don't think he's read my book). He wastelling romantic stories about shooting stars, andhe risked his life to be with her again... andconfessed his love, etc. This is a round-about way of addressing yourcomments and answering your question, but thisstory helps me to put my answers in perspective. As far as being "a real man" goes, I think thatit's a good idea. Women respond powerfully to"male-ness". If it is expressed in a powerfulway, it can create an amazing attraction inside ofa woman. As you've learned by reading my book,there are a lot of simple ways to do this. If you'd like to learn the "secret" that these"real men" use to attract women, check this out:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/OnBeingAMan/ To answer your question "Should you ever beweak?", I say: Most men act weak ALL THE TIME when they are inthe presence of an attractive woman. This is a bigproblem. If a woman sees you as a "weak man", thentrying to "be strong" will never work. You willonly come across as a weak guy who's trying to"act strong". On the other hand, a guy who is thought of as a"real man"... one who does not act weak during thefirst several interactions with a woman, can havea "weak moment" later on and actually have a womanrespond in a very powerful, positive way. In other words, if you're perceived as a "realman", then you can do whatever you want, and itwill be perceived as part of that personality. But if you are perceived as a "weak man", thenNOTHING you can do will trigger the strong gut-level attraction inside of a woman. And nothing will change that picture inside ofa woman's head. Once you're thought of as a weak,nice, ass-kissing guy, it's like an invisibleswitch gets switched off inside of a woman. Andit's not coming back on anytime soon. So, the big question is, how do you projectthis "real man" image? How do you be yourselfwhile at the same time doing the things thatcreate attraction? How do you act in an authenticway, while amplifying those parts of yourpersonality that are most likely to trigger theattraction mechanism inside of women? Part of the answer is to realize that justabout every communication has several levels ofmeaning. When you tease, act cocky and funny, andbust a woman's balls, you could viewed as being amean jerk. Or, if you do it right you can beviewed as an interesting, sexy man. This is a critical concept, and you need tounderstand it if you want to succeed with women. If you'd like to get an AMAZING education onthe technique I call "Cocky & Funny", then youshould check out my Cocky Comedy DVD/CD program. This program will teach you everything from thebasics of humor and laughter... all the way todozens and dozens of specific "lines" to use inevery possible situation with women. Go watch some of the video preview clips here,and you'll get an idea of what I mean:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/CockyComedy/ If you haven't read my eBook, I'd recommendthat you check it out. It'd taken me years tolearn, test, refine, and write all of thisinformation down. And you can learn it all in afew hours of reading. You can download it and bereading it within a few minutes:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/eBook/ As our friend above wrote: "P.S. AND... tothose who haven't bought the book. Run, jump,fly, swim as fast as you can to that downloadpage. It'll be the best investment you've madesince you were 13 and read that copy of Penthousethat you'd found under your Father's bed." I personally think it's an even BETTERinvestment than dad's Penthouse mags... And if you're ready to REALLY step up and get aWORLD-CLASS education on the topic of women anddating... and get the most advanced programavailable for learning how to meet and date morewomen, then you need to check out my AdvancedDating Techniques CD/DVD Program. It is literally JAM PACKED with HUNDREDS andHUNDREDS of killer techniques for overcoming yourfears, improving your self image, approachingwomen, getting phone numbers, getting dates,meeting women online, and about a bazillion otherthings. Here are the details, plus some great videopreview clips:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/AdvancedSeries/ This program will BLOW YOUR MIND, and you'llINSTANTLY learn secrets that it has taken me YEARSand YEARS to figure out. Talk to you again soon. Your Friend, David D.P.S. Don't forget to look at the entire list ofprograms I've put together to help you meet women.You can see them all, plus watch video clips ofthem right here:http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10020/Catalog/P.P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphsmax.2) Tell me what's working for you before you askyour question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuffis great" and "I don't need to tell you how wellyour stuff works" comments, but the fact is that IDO need to hear all of the specifics... becausethis helps other guys to see what's working indifferent situations.3) If you have a Success Story, write "SuccessStory" in the subject line of the email. I readthese first.4) At the end of the email, give me your initialsand tell me where you're from.5) Send it to me at:SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com ...don't just hit "reply" to this email. 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