music for love making

TOP LOVE SONGS...HOUSE PARTY/TECHNO


Lover's Lounge (Intentcity)- Sexy and soulful with a hint of techno...Enjoy "sexy chilled grooves, trance inducing world beats and tantalizing melodies". Where the erotic meets the exotic...you'll love it!
Rhythm & Pleasure (Rip Rowan)- Written with passion in mind, this CD is a fusion of jazz-funk-electronica-mood music. Quite cool...hard to define...imaginative and sensuous.
Mushroom Jazz 4 (Mark Farina)- Smooth, bumpin' trip/hop jazz...hardcore houseparty... urban dance and rainy-day-jazz all rolled into one. Experience it!
Nude Tempo I (Miguel Miggs)-Your DJ puts together one thoroughly sexy, techno-jazz-fusion assortment! "Party in a box"...
TOP LOVE SONGS...ROMANTIC JAZZ

Caliente (Gato Barbieri)- Fiery, passionate, sexy sax. Maybe dated, but a masterpiece, nonetheless. Spin this disc in your bedroom one hot and sultry night.
Push Push (Herbie Mann with Duane Allman)- Allman contributes a solid guitar base to Mann's sweet, erotic flute. This traditionally romantic album is a smooth jazz classic.
Getz/GilbertoFeaturing saxist Stan Getz and Brazilian singer Astrud Gilberto, this CD is a wonderful balance of jazz and soft Latin rhythms. Experience classic Bossa Nova at it's best. Perfect for an urbane, sophisticated evening sippin' martinis on the rooftop. Remember "The Girl from Ipanema"?
After Midnight- (Nat "King" Cole)Must-have CD showcasing the King as a serious jazz pianist. A great album for a romantic evening or a cosmopolitan gathering. Swinging, Baby...
The Best of the Verve Songbooks: Lovesongs (Ella Fitzgerald)No listing of great romantic jazz would be complete without Ella. This beautifully arranged album will melt the heart of any listener.
Kind of Blue (Miles Davis)Okay, so Miles can be a little "out there". But this is often referred to as "the jazz album for people who hate jazz". Great for chillin' on the couch in a darkened living room after the guests go home.
TOP LOVE SONGS RHYTHM & BLUES

Reptile (Eric Clapton)- It's sexy. It's light. It's dark. Listen to it by candlelight... on the massage table... One of our all-time favorites.
Astral Weeks (Van Morrison)No self respecting collection would be complete without this work of art! The album is a soulful mixture of folk, blues, jazz and classical. It's passionate and tender... and solidly romantic.
Barry White- All-time Greatest HitsThe finest collection ever assembled by the velvet-tongued balladeer. Practically a punchline when it comes to seductive soul. Orchestral but funky.
Al Green- Greatest HitsRomantic, gritty and sexy, this excellent CD defines 70s soul. Al Green IS love. A great mood-setter for the R&B fan.
Let's Get It On- (Marvin Gaye)The title track is a "masterpiece of seduction". Unmatched for it's sensuality and sexual energy. Maybe a little too direct for a first date, but perfect to stoke some already-smoldering fires.
TOP LOVE SONGS CLASSICAL/SOFT SOULFUL

Bolero (Ravel-- London Symphony Orchestra)-Exquisite, elegant, yet bold and inspiring...the perfect foreplay interlude. You'll remember it as the theme from the movie "10".
Tchaikovsky Piano Concerto #1- by Van CliburnOne of the greatest piano concertos of all time. More romantic than erotic, but a must-have.
Romantic Adagios--Various composersAwesome for candlelight dinners or snuggling by the fire... also great for elegant de-stressing.A great mix of classics from the Romantic period.
Johnny's Greatest Hits (Johnny Mathis)His best album of favorites, this CD flows seamlessly for 30 minutes of soulful, classic romancin'. Stayed on the charts for a decade, and for good reason...
Frank Sinatra- Greatest Love SongsThe "Chairman of the Board" at his best... silky smooth ballads that will take you back to a kinder, gentler time.
TOP LOVE SONGS POP/SOFT ROCK/ COUNTRY COLLECTIONS

Power of Love- (Madacy #2)- Eclectic mix of artists...Nice collection for a trip down memory lane... soft and pretty tunes to put you in the mood for love.
One & Only Love Album- VariousPure vanilla...pure memories...crisp copies of nostalgic classics. If you ever fell in love in the 70s or 80s, this one's for you. If you're a girl.
I Love You Because: Famous Country Love SongsA boxed set of 42 classics for the country-lover in you. Included are the traditional heartbreaky ballads, but the whole collection is amazingly passionate and seductive. "Put your sweet lips a little closer to the phone..."
Everlasting Love Songs- MCA (Classic Country)- Set the mood for romance...country style.
TOP LOVE SONGS...NEW AGE
Music for Lovers (Stephen Halpern)- Sensuous, mystical, a fitting tapestry for serious love-making
Enhancing Intimacy (Stephen Halpern)- Exotic and erotic, this lush and lovely CD is entwined with subliminal suggestions to promote intimacy and caring.
My Music for Massage (Various Artists)Soothing and beautiful backdrop for a sensuous massage
Music for Massage: The Light Touch for Health & HarmonyLay down for your massage and take a wonderful, relaxing trip down a lazy river.

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Move from 5 seconds to 11 minutes

Here's a quick and comical response to the ever-dreaded 5 second sex life that many men live with. This is a simple strategy you can use to instantly turn your limited lasting power to your advantage without thinking about some dude in a baseball leotard's ass while you're making love. The real key of course is to learn to feel the pleasure and master it's waxing and waning so you that you can "last" as long as you like. But, that's for another episode.For now, enjoy this...

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whether you realize it yet or not - the Default State is the sexiest.

For those of you who think i've forgotten about the sexy - don't you believe it. Whether you recognize it or not - we're thick in middle of it. The truth is that where i really want to go, you've got to be a little more well-versed in human consciousness than, "when do i stick it in?" And whether you realize it yet or not - the Default State is the sexiest.

It is THE state to learn.
Everything starts with the Default and when you've made that true for yourself - you're in a world of...well, something before and beyond pleasure. And you'll stimulate that in others too.
The Default State is the baseline state for every person when they're at rest and it's the baseline state of you. When you are stabilized in it, you are both structurally and functionally well formed. The trick is that, for most people, being truly at rest is something they haven't done in so long they don't really know what the hell that phrase even means.

Completely at rest?
Yes. Completely. All autonomic functions working perfectly and very little other activity.
When you've released everything…the Default State remains. This is like having a Restart button on your metaphoric OS. And once you've reset, once everything of who you are is at rest, the filters of your experience are simply in a state of readiness, aligned to express You in perfect accordance with the living blueprint of who you are. Like this, learning occurs naturally, and everything you engage in comes to you more naturally. Orgasms are fuller, longer, and all-around better and you only make the best decisions that put you near and in bed with the lovers that are perfect for you.

So, for those of you ready for the real adventure - start by learning the configuration of your Default. Then start using it. Use it all over and if you have questions - let me know. This is my main passion and i'm happy to go further into with you. I'll be posting a lot more on the Default as well as the two other main states i want you to know both here and elsewhere. (i'll let you know where.) And don't worry - we'll be getting back to our regularly scheduled sexy time soon - but deeper and more intimately.

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Key Words Women Say When Attracted

>>>HEY... I've created an entire series of programs to help you learn how to attract women, get dates, and take things to a "physical level"... and you can look through all of themright here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/Catalog
OK, so GET THIS...
I'm reading through some of the bazillion emails I get every week, and I come across one ofthe best emails that I've read in a LONG time.
Are you ready for the interesting part?
It's from a MARRIED GUY.
Yep, you read that right. He's married.
He reads the newsletters and uses the things helearns to improve his marriage. Go figure.
This guy was able to explain in a fewparagraphs a concept and technique that Ipersonally use, but have been unable to actuallyexplain and verbalize well.
I wish I would have written what you're aboutto read, but I didn't (but I'm still a cool guybecause I wrote what came before and after it).
Check this out...
***Conversation Technique***
Dave,
I'm still having great success with a rekindledmarriage using you're Tips on my wife. Thanks amillion. Listen, I keep reading over and over inthe MailBags guys wanting to know how to start,then keep a conversation going with women. I workfor a major oil company and have been through manyof there training courses on dealing with people.One particularly interesting course was on"Information Seeking". For this we first practicedpicking up on "Key words or phrases" the subjectsaid. For instance, I'll try and give an exampleusing c&f even though you wouldn't use thisprofessionally on the job. Lets say you see thisgreat looking chick on the street and you tellher, "That's an unusual looking dress you'rewearing. Was that made out of a shower curtain?"She says, "Your mean! No, I bought this from theOld Navy store." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, soyou're in the Navy, huh?" "No silly. You know, thebig store over at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh,so you like going to the Mall and buying strangelooking dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buythem also?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers andmy dress is very popular I'll have you know!" Keyphrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends areneat dressers in a popular dress like you'rewearing then I'm going into the shower curtainclothing business..." I know, this is a lameexample but the lessons are this.
1) You start a conversation with however you wantthen pick out key words or phrases from what theperson says.
2) You repeat them in what you say then listen fornew key words in there next response.
3) You add a little something new into theconversation REPEATING there words you're using asKey words or phrases. This tells them you'relistening, even though you're turning thingsaround to be c/f in this situation.
Once we learned to keep someone talking for 5minutes, then 15 minutes the company actuallyhired total strangers from a job solicitingcompany to come and be our subjects. While beingvideotaped we had to get the person talking andkeep them talking for 30 minutes. One importantnote: If a person brings up something personal orwhatever, they wouldn't have mentioned it if theydidn't want to talk about it. These are great toKey in on. My subject mentioned she was goingthrough a divorce and her ex-husband was a totaljerk. I keyed in on this and it's amazing what atotal stranger will tell you once you build alittle rapport. When watching the video you pickup on mistakes or you see something different youcould have said. You also pick up on Key words andphases you missed. It just takes a littlepractice. This is just one example of how you canstart a conversation and keep it going. Hopefullyit can be of help to you're readers.
JTM Texas
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Awesome.
This is an EXCELLENT description of how to keepa conversation going, keep it interesting andunpredictable, and talk about ANYTHING and have itbe fun.
Read it again.
Now, let me sprinkle a little magic dust onthis and tell you how I use this techniquepersonally.
When I'm having a conversation with a woman,I'm not just listening for ANY key word... I'mlistening for a particular KIND of key word (orwords).
I'm always on the alert for any words orphrases that can be twisted, turned around,misinterpreted, and misconstrued (is that a word?)in one of a few particular ways...
Namely, in a way that says she's stupid, ditzy,sexually crazed, or acting suspicious.
For instance, in your example above, yousuggested the following:
"That's an unusual looking dress you're wearing.Was that made out of a shower curtain?" She says,"You're mean! No, I bought this from the Old Navystore." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, so you're in theNavy, huh?" "No silly. You know, the big storeover at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh, so youlike going to the Mall and buying strange lookingdresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy themalso?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers and mydress is very popular I'll have you know!" Keyphrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends areneat dressers in a popular dress like you'rewearing then I'm going into the shower curtainclothing business..."
Good. Nice one.
Now, let's dial it up a little bit...
She says, "No, I bought this from the Old Navystore..."
Instead of just keying into "Navy" and saying,"Oh, so you're in the navy, huh?", why not take itto the next step and actually MAKE FUN of her.
"Oh, so is this what guys used to wear in theNavy a long time ago... in the OLD Navy?"
Now you're BUSTING on her as well, AND it'sfunny.
She says, "No silly. you know, the big storeover at the Mall."
You might try, "What kind of MALL are YOUshopping at? And do your girlfriends buy dresseslike that one too?"
Again, you're hinting that she has funky tasteand she shops in weird places.
She says, "My girlfriends are neat dressers andmy dress is very popular I'll have you know!"
You could go with, "Oh, you have girlfriends?You have more than one? Do they all know that youthink of them as a girlfriend? Or is one of themthe special one? By the way, if you have cutegirlfriends, then I think you and I are going toget along VERY well."
...are you with me here?
What I'm doing is NOT ONLY looking for keywords to latch onto, but I'm ALSO looking for waysto spin them to make fun, tease, and subtlysuggest various kinds of "racy" topics.
When done in a funny way, it's magic.
My very favorite technique with women is "Cocky& Funny". If you want to learn to master it, makesure you go and check THIS out right now:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/CockyComedy
Once upon a time, a guy I know very well wentinto a nightclub.
He was talking to a girl at that club forawhile when she said, "Well, I'm getting tired. Ithink it's time for me to go home."
The guy answered "Go HOME?! I just met you. I'mnot going HOME with you!"
She said, "No, I mean I'M going home. I'mtired."
He shot back, "Maybe you don't hear me. I'm notgoing home with you, so don't even ask anymore."
She said, "No, that's not what I'm saying..."
He replied, "And besides, I'm sure my place isnicer than yours... so if anything, you're cominghome with ME."
This went on and on for about an hour or so.
And you guessed it, she went home with him.
I saw it happen with my own two eyes. Anotheroff-the-wall (but pretty funny) example of this isa story that a good friend of mine told me aboutone of his friends.
His friend was talking to a girl at a club andshe was talking about what kinds of things sheenjoyed doing in her spare time.
She said, "...I like to go clubbing..."
He came back with, "Oh, like baby seals?"
lol... Now, that might not get a girl to comehome with you, but it's damn funny. Love it.
This technique is GREAT for keeping aconversation fresh, fun, unpredictable, and FUNNY(if you know how to do it just right).
Use it.
Right now you're probably thinking to yourself:
"Wow, that's really great. I sure wish therewas a resource available that could show mehundreds of great ideas like that... so I couldknow exactly what to do from when I first meet awoman to the first date... all the way up until weget physical and beyond..."
Guess what?
It's right here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries
...and it's absolutely JAM PACKED with so manygreat, interesting, and useful ideas for meetingand dating more women, you'll be shaking your headwhen you're listening to it. Guaranteed.
...and if you haven't downloaded your copy ofmy online eBook "Double Your Dating", then maybe Ihaven't mentioned it enough times. You candownload it and be reading it in literally MINUTESfrom right now. Go get it:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook
I'll talk to you again soon!
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. When you're really ready to take your successwith women to the NEXT level, then take a fewminutes and look through the programs that I'vecreated to help you learn how to meet women. Youcan see all them (including some great video clipsfrom the different programs) right here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/Catalog

Sex guides and Tips

There are many great:: ideas for sensual love that can take the way you and your beloved communicate to the next level. These ideas may be all that you need in order to take your physical and mental relationship to the next level.

Well, here are some perfect ideas for sensual love: Lighting candles is that kind of thing that has been used for many years by many people. Lotions and oils can also be a great way to better connect with your partner. This kind of stuff has always been an essential part of sensual love. By special kits for sensual love - spread rose petals all over the floor and bed to bring some sensuality to your bedroom.

Your relationships:: may turn into something amazing and sensual love will fill you up. Some ideas will help you both to feel sensual love. Fill up the bathtub with warm water and bubbles, and have a great time doing nothing more than relaxing with your partner. This is one of the best sensual ideas available for everybody. Welcome your partner in a sexy way.

There are different ideas to of course help you out. Well you can surprise your partner by welcoming him/her with a completely naked you waiting or in sexy lingerie if the matter concerns woman.

If you want to go extreme then a glass of wine with some role-playing can do the trick as well. Chocolate sauce tastes awesome when it is licked up from you're the body of your partner. You will never forget these minutes of true sensual love!

Massage is an integral:: part of sensual love for many couples. The great combination of touch and scent is very effective in opening up intimacy between two people. There are a lot of nerve endings that follow along the path of the spine. Begin the massage with a small amount of massage oil, which can be found in the category of sensual love products. Rub the oil in the palms of your hands to warm it up before it touches the skin of your partner. Encourage your lover to breathe in a deep and relax as you gently massage his neck. If the massage is a prelude to sexual intercourse, now is a really good time to let the kissing begin. Don't forget about fluffy pillows and soothing music and the time of sensual love will be unforgettable.


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list of erogenous zones

Women complain often, that men are very concentrate on women’s genitals and they forget about other erogenous zones which stimulation is agreeable to them.
Here, I will place a list of erogenous zones which stimulation will guarantee you success in bed.
Eyelids and temples. Temples present a concentration of nerve ends. Woman will like, if you kiss her along eyelids till temples. Area between eye’s corner and temporal zone are sensitive also to any caresses. So, after some zealous kisses on the lips, attend attention also to these zones.
Ear conch and neck. As the saying goes, women love with the help of ears. Ear conchs and area behind them, and also the neck, especially her dorsal part, treat kindly not only with kisses but also with delicate stroking, tickling with tongue, licking and so on.
Neck and shoulders. Neck’s stimulation is very agreeable, turning in humeral section’s stimulation. Here, it’s recommended to use tactics more hard, sultry kisses, hickeys, energetic massage’s movements.
Navel and zone “V”. Women like to feel in the men’s tight embraces, that’s why don’t be lazy to embrace her waist. Embrace her, while you kiss her neck and shoulders. Gear down from waist to abdomen with the help of caressing movements, zone “V” (zone “V” is situated between hip bone under abdomen, ending to pubic bone, don’t include genitals). Stop, before arriving to genitals (there is another zone).
Pubic zone under abdomen. You can caress her with the help of kisses and stroke back and forward (from navel to pubis). Don’t forget that you shouldn’t be in a hurry when you move to genitals and give sufficient consideration to this zone.
Feet. Feet for some women – taboo, perhaps they be ticklish or think that they are dirty. But, for some women, the feet are the most erogenous zone. So, you should be careful when you decide to excite this part of women’s body.
You can start your researches with leg’s washing and their massage with the help of kisses and hands, and only at the end to stimulate this zone with tongue.
If your partner will respond your languishing sighs, it means that you attained your goal.
Zone under descents. After feet stimulation, it’s time to move to zone after descents, where the skin is the most sensitive for caresses.
Styria at the bottom of buttocks. You can run your fingers over the skin, moving and kissing closer and near to the center.
Buttocks. This is a very hard erogenous zone which, by the way, needs a slow approach. You can stroke and press them easily, when you stimulate the zones from 1 till 8, but intensive pressings and slaps you must leave until later, when your partner will be warmed up sufficiently.
Inside of hips. This is the last zone, which needs stimulation before descending to genitals. Light finger strokes between kisses will be at the nick of time, for exciting finally your partner. Meanwhile, don’t touch the clitoris and vulva, concentrate your attention to hips inside, leave genitals for the last stage.
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How To Use Flirting To Make Her Want You

NOTE: If you're interested in learning how touse Body Language to trigger MASSIVE attractionand "sexual chemistry" with women, then you should take a minute and read THIS:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/BodyLanguage

I want to talk about the concept of "flirting",and why it's SO important that you understand exactly what it is and how to do it with women.
To begin with, women know what flirting is and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to typical social communication.
If you understand flirting and sexual tension,you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you.

If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexualtension work, then you're either going to have tobecome famous or make a LOT of money to besuccessful with women.
I'm going to suggest that you learn how toflirt well, then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING inyour interactions with women to SET THE RIGHTTONE.
Think of flirting like playing.
Remember when you were a kid and you used to"play fight" with your friends?
What's the difference between "play" wrestlingand "real" wrestling?
And how do you know the difference when it'shappening... when your friend runs up and pushesyou down, then jumps on you and tries to pin you?
The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious tohumans (and other animals, by the way) whensomeone is "playing" and when they're serious.
Flirting is similar.
If you start talking to a woman and say, "Hi,you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend,right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're NOTflirting.
On the other hand, if you say, "Hi, I realizethat you're probably shy because you get noattention from men... so I thought I'd come overhere and pay attention to you..." it's OBVIOUSthat you're not being serious. This is flirting.
By the way, flirting IS NOT simply tellingjokes, or trying to be "cute".
One of the concepts that I teach is called"Cocky & Funny."
Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful,concentrated way of flirting and creating sexualtension with a specific kind of humor.
It's so funny to me how some guys write inbecause they "can't see themselves being Cocky &Funny around women" because they don't want tocome across as jerks.
This really cracks me up... because it'sobvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.
So let me explain this whole thing a differentway...
If you know how to communicate the right way,women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNINGwith a HIGH LEVEL of sexual interest andATTRACTION.
When you know how to incorporate flirting in aCocky & Funny way, which is really a form of"adult verbal play", you tune in to a certainfrequency in a woman's mind and cause her to gointo a very special kind of emotional state.
One of the keys to effective flirting is to"get it". In other words, you have to actually getout there and practice so you get a "feel" for howit works.
I think a lot of guys give up when they try acute line or technique and a woman responds bysaying "You're a loser." Instead of just realizingthat they need more practice or that the womanmight have just been in a bad mood or even one ofthose horrible "I don't have a sense of humor"cases, they take it personally and decide to justhave it mean that they're a failure.
But take my word for it... once you learn howto flirt effectively and communicate in thelanguage of "adult play" you WILL SIMPLY NOTBELIEVE how women will respond to you. If you want to see some video clips of me TEACHING Cocky & Funny then go here and check out the examples:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//CockyComedy/?cid=ZZZ3CD&lid=2&sbid=2571750
Here's an example of some of one of my favoritetopics to "riff on" when flirting... the topic ofgetting married and us being in a relationship...and I'll give it to you in the form of a sampledialogue. Keep in mind, I might have aconversation like this one with a woman that Ijust met five minutes earlier...
Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"
Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to getmarried? We could leave for Vegas right now and bemarried in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman withmoney."
Her: [Laughter] "OK, that sounds like a plan"
Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you cansupport the both of us on your income? I reallywant to be a stay at home husband... you know,keep an eye on the TV and such."
Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."
Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It'sover between us. I was going to marry you, thendivorce you a week later and take half yourmoney."
Her: [Laughter] "You can't break up with me! I'mnot even your girlfriend."
Me: "That's all the more reason."
...do you get what's going on here?
I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her joband income) and redirecting the conversation in aflirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a funmood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage,divorce, and breaking up over her not supportingme, etc.).
If the above example doesn't make any sense toyou, then take that as a sign that you need to getout and practice more. Try it on a waitress ortwo.
When you ask for something and she says, "I'msorry, we don't have that", just say, "OK, thisrelationship isn't working out... I'm going tohave to break up with you."
In fact, you can say this in just about ANYsituation with ANY woman where she's sayingsomething that you don't like, and it's funny.
When you communicate like this, you'reFLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating aDIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than what most meninitiate.
And as soon as the woman you're talking to"engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAMEIS ON.
There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and alot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'TREQUIRE WORDS.
If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow,look back at her and do the same... onlyexaggerate it.
If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look downat it, then look up at her in a surprised way,then raise your eyebrows as if you just had amajor "ah ha!" realization... then start smilingand nodding your head as if you just realized thatshe wants you. This is a powerful combinationbecause it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaningin her touching you.
There are a MILLION ways to flirt like this,but the point that I'm trying to make is that youNEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OFYOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN.
It will set off all of your conversations withwomen on the right foot, and start a dialogue thatcreates sexual tension and ATTRACTION.
If you DON'T learn how to communicate withwomen like this you'll have BORING, "NORMAL"conversations that NEVER lead to sexual tensionand ATTRACTION.
Remember, women can tell INSTANTLY whetheryou're flirting with them or not. If you are, andyou're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'llget amazing responses.
One of the keys to flirting and creatingATTRACTION effectively, is projecting confidenceand indifference both in your voice tone and bodylanguage as you do it...
And in order to project these things, you needto have the right understanding and BELIEFS abouthow male/female ATTRACTION works... and then beable to project them throughout your conversationwith women.
If you don't naturally "get" the concept offlirting with women, and you'd like to learn howto use it to spark ATTRACTION, build SexualTension and eventually take things to a PHYSICALLEVEL, then I highly recommend that you get yourhands on a copy of my "Sexual Communication"program.
Over the time I spent learning directly fromguys who were REALLY good with women, I noticedsomething that they were all doing... that mostmen literally CAN'T SEE.
I discovered what I think of as a "secretlanguage" that men and women use to communicate ona "sexual level"...
Well, after discovering that this was going onright in front of me all my life... and thenlearning how to use it to attract women... Irealized that I HAD to teach this to other guys.
And that's what this program is all about.
Teaching YOU to speak THIS language.
After going through this program, I guaranteethat you'll look at all your interactions withwomen very differently... and you'll create a LOTmore ATTRACTION with women... using only yourvoice tone, inflection, and body language.
Oh, and you'll know how to FLIRT, too.
You can check out all the specifics... and youcan watch some video clips of the program here:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//SexualCommunication/?cid=ZZZ3CD&lid=3&sbid=2571750
The NEXT program you need to get if you want tolearn how to FLIRT with women is my famous "CockyComedy" DVD/CD program.
One of the SPECIFIC things that I saw guys whowere "naturals" with women doing... and one of thethings that I later learned to do... is what Icall "being Cocky & Funny".
You've probably read about the technique inthese newsletters I send you.
This is essentially my FAVORITE "technique",and the reason why is because it's FUN... and itWORKS.
It's fun for you, it's fun for her, and itworks like MAD to spark and build ATTRACTION.
If you've tried being Cocky & Funny with awoman and seen that SPARK in her eye... and thesmile on her face... then you KNOW how powerfulthis is.
Well, this program will take your basic skillsand SUPERCHARGE them. I'll teach you everythingfrom the foundations of humor and laughter... allthe way to specific word-by-word lines for themost common situations you find yourself in withwomen.
Go check it out, and watch some video clipshere:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//CockyComedy/?cid=ZZZ3CD&lid=4&sbid=2571750
Oh, and if you haven't gone and downloaded myonline eBook "Double Your Dating", then you needto get your ass in gear and do that right now. Youcan download it and be reading it in just a fewminutes from right now. Get it here:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//eBook/?cid=ZZZ3CD&lid=5&sbid=2571750
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to read the story of how Ilearned to meet women and get dates ANYTIMEand ANYWHERE, then just go here (and you canalso see video clips of every one of my programsas well):
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//Catalog/?cid=ZZZ3CD&lid=6&sbid=2571750
P.P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:
1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphsmax.
2) Tell me what's working for you before you askyour question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuffis great" and "I don't need to tell you how wellyour stuff works" comments, but the fact is that IDO need to hear all of the specifics... becausethis helps other guys to see what's working indifferent situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "SuccessStory" in the subject line of the email. I readthese first.
4) At the end of the email, give me your initialsand tell me where you're from.
5) Send it to me at:
SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com
...don't just hit "reply" to this email.
Thanks!