>ARE YOU interested in learning how to tellwhether or not a woman is interested in you? Areyou fascinated with eye contact, body language,and the little "hints" that women use to tell youthat they're attracted to you? If so, and ifyou're interested in learning how to use thesetools to create ATTRACTION, then read THIS:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/SexualCommunication
OK, I have a quick trick question for you.
That's right, I said a quick TRICK question.
How can you tell if a woman is interested inyou?
Answer quickly.
So what gives?
Why am I asking you a trick question?
Simple.
Because I'm trying to make you THINK.
I'm sure that, just like me, you've read ahundred books and articles that say things like:
"If she tilts her head to one side and strokes herneck, that's a sign of interest..."
"If she licks her lips in a longing fashion, thatmeans she's interested in you..."
"If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact,and touches you often, then she likes you..."
DUH!
I remember when I first read all this stuff.
I thought to myself "Wow, cool! I must havebeen missing these hints because I didn't know tolook for them. Now I'll know when a woman isinterested in me..."
Well, there was ONE SMALL problem...
The problem is that women display these MAJORINTEREST signals in about 1 of 100 interactionswith men...
And there was one BIG problem...
That problem was that none of the damn books Iread said a single thing about how to MAKE womengive you these signals.
In other words, what I realized is that averageguys like me who don't get "approached" by womenneed to learn not only WHAT to look for, but, moreimportantly, how to actually CREATE ATTRACTION inwomen so they GAVE me these signals in the FIRSTPLACE.
So let me share with you some ideas on how toMAKE women feel ATTRACTION for you... and thenI'll share some ideas on what to LOOK FOR to tellif a woman is interested.
And my ideas will be a WEEEEEE BIT differentthan the ones you read in your flirting books.
OK, so you're out at a bar with a few friends,and it's time to meet some interesting women.
You look around, and none of the hot youngbabes in there seem to be tilting their heads toone side, looking you in the eye, and lickingtheir lips... so you decide to DO SOMETHING.
What do most guys do in this situation?
Either:
1) Nothing, because they're scared, or...
2) Something typical, like ask a girl to dance, orif he can buy her a drink.
If you're guilty of doing these, raise yourhand.
Then take your raised hand, and slap yourselfsilly. Not too hard. But silly.
If I have your attention, and you're interestedin becoming a MASTER of using Body Language tocreate ATTRACTION, then check this out:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/BodyLanguage
Here's a thought for you...
If you put 100 guys in a bar with one beautifulwoman sitting alone, and you say to all 100 of theguys, "Hey guys, which one of you can walk over tothat woman and do something to make that womanfeel a SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"... I'd say thatif you're LUCKY, one of them will claim that hecan do it.
In other words, for most guys, the idea ofwalking up to a girl they don't know and doingsomething that will TRIGGER an attraction iscompletely outside of their universe.
This is one of the reasons why guys do thingslike asking girls to dance, buying them drinks,etc.
Now, something you must understand when itcomes to women and ATTRACTION is that women don'tfeel ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.
ATTRACTION isn't a CHOICE.
It isn't logical (at least, on the surface).
But once you start to "get it", everythingchanges. Your entire perspective changes once you"get it", and your results change instantly aswell.
So here's something for you to try:
MESS WITH WOMEN.
That's right "mess with" them.
Tease.
Bust on.
Be difficult.
Why?
Because it INSTANTLY communicates that:
1) You could care less what she thinks of you.
2) You're a fun person.
3) You're unpredictable.
4) You're a bit of a "wild card"
5) You GET IT.
Now, you might be shaking your head right nowand saying "That doesn't make any sense. Why woulda woman feel attracted to me if I mess with herinstead of being nice?".
That's a good question.
But for now, take the hand that you slappedyourself with earlier, and slap yourself again.
Good.
I want you to STOP following your "be nice andkiss ass" instincts when you first meet a woman,and instead practice MESSING WITH HER.
Make fun of something.
Go to hand her something, then pull it away atthe last second.
Shake your head in despair and tell her thatshe's screwing up her chances with you.
Say something Cocky & Funny, then turn aroundand walk away before she can respond to your face.
Can ya feel me, dog?
Now the good stuff...
HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED
Well, this is what you were looking for, sohere it is...
I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formulafor knowing whether or not a woman is interestedin you.
Here it is:
1) You engage her.
2) She engages you back.
Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause longenough that I can finish. You can clap later.
I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", butstay with me here.
If I walk into a restaurant, and the hostessasks me how many are in my party, and I answerwith, "Well, there are three of us. I guess therewill be FOUR if YOU join us..." and she laughs atmy joke, then IT'S ON!
If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman nextto me bumps into my arm, and I turn and say, "Hey,watch it, OK? Keep some space here, I need atleast a foot of room..." in a serious tone ofvoice... and she starts playing along by smilingand moving away from me then back again playfully,then IT'S ON!
If I'm talking to a woman that I met at themagazine rack, and I ask her, "What's with thathuge purse of yours? You got a dog in there orsomething?" and she starts laughing and makingexcuses, then IT'S ON!
In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is:
1) Stop looking around for signals from women thatthey're "interested" in you.
2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular womanis interested in you.
3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, andwatching to see if women ENGAGE. If they do, thenassume that IT'S ON!
As long as you use how she's responding to whatYOU do as your gauge, then you'll have a MUCHeasier time spotting the "she wants me" clues...
...Because YOU ARE THE ONE CAUSING THEM.
And...
...and if you want literally HUNDREDS andHUNDREDS of killer ideas for making women feelATTRACTION for you, then go get a copy of myAdvanced Dating Techniques Program.
This program will give you a COMPLETEfoundation for overcoming fear, approaching women,getting dates, and taking things to a "physical"level quickly... easily... and without rejection.
I'm serious.
Go check out some of the killer preview videoclips that I have on my website here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries
Oh, and if you haven't taken the time todownload my online eBook, then you must do thatNOW. You can download it right now, and literallybe reading it within a few minutes. You candownload it here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook
Stop beating your head against the wall, andstart taking advantage of the years I've spentlearning this stuff. You'll be SO glad you did.
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to look at ALL of the differentprograms I've created to help you learn how toattract and meet women, then take a minute andlook at my online "catalog" site. You can see allmy programs, plus watch some great video clips ofevery one of them here:
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marriage
Thank you Keshi for sharing your thoughts and for this beautiful, romantic song for Wedding. Good title "When you marry yourself".
I think that not everybody is ready and have to be married and breeds kids. This same way as not everybody can drives car.I think not only about drunk people, but also about people with less reflex, blind, etc..,.. . They expose yourself and others to danger.
Some people are good as a single,
some can only marry yourself
and some are perfect to get marry and they have a good, happy family.
We must take responsibility for our own action.
2 July 2008 06:43
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Secrets About Women Mom Never Taught You
>If you'd like to see all of my differentprograms... each one designed to help you learnhow to meet and attract women better... and evensee video clips from each of them... then take aminute and go check THIS out:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//Catalog/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=1&sbid=2571750
***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***
Dave, Why is it that a woman who is onlyinterested in the funny, cocky and challenging(i.e., interesting) men, later in life tries toraise sons that are sweet, thoughtful and "nice"?(i.e., run of the mill)!! WS New York
>>>MY COMMENTS:
This is a VERY interesting question, and I'mglad you emailed me to ask it.
I'm going to give you my personal take on this.But, more importantly, I'm going to talk about howthese kinds of paradoxes exist right in plainsight all around us... and how to interpret themso you can increase your own personal success withwomen and dating.
So, to answer your question first...
I've spent a lot of time researching thistopic, and doing a lot of personal testing to seeif I could find some answers.
Right now, as I write this, I think that itgoes like this:
"Being Nice" in the way that you're describing,usually means things like: giving compliments,buying gifts, providing food, doing favors,tolerating emotional manipulation, pretending tobe in a good mood even if you're not, etc.
I believe that this is mostly a SOCIALLY andCULTURALLY CONSTRUCTED set of "rules". There maybe some "hard wiring" in us that makes us"naturally" want to do nice things for women sothey'll give us approval, but I think it's mostlyPROGRAMMED into us...
Now, think about it this way: These "nice"things are typically very FEMININE things to do...
So, what's a mom in today's culture going toteach her son?
Of course... how to be "nice" to girls.
And, what if there's no dad around to help outin the "training" of a son? You guessed it... evenMORE "nice" programming from mom.
The bottom line is that most of the peoplewalking around on this planet have NO IDEA howATTRACTION works, and therefore will never be ableto TEACH another person how this fabulous processworks.
This includes mothers. Mom loved you and wantedthe best for you, she just had no idea how toexplain what makes women feel ATTRACTION. Mom mayhave gotten the tingles when she saw ClintEastwood shooting everyone... and Neil Diamondrunning around with his sneer, hairy chest andthat pickle in his jeans... (and that remindsme... EWWWWWW... your mom is gross, dude).
But, this doesn't mean that she can or wouldexplain to her boy how to make this happen withother women!
Check this out: If you would like to learn myown PERSONAL secrets for how to overcome thisproblem of not knowing how to become a man whoNATURALLY attracts women, then you should go hereNOW:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//OnBeingAMan/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=2&sbid=2571750
OK. Let's talk about what we can actually LEARNfrom this kind of phenomenon.
The thing that really fascinates me aboutpeople is THEIR ABILITY TO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT'SGOING ON... even though it's going on IN PLAINSIGHT ALL AROUND THEM... and the even MORE amazingtendency to ARGUE VIOLENTLY WHEN one of theseOBVIOUS THINGS IS PRESENTED TO THEM.
I've read some fascinating books about theconcept of "self-deception", and I've come torealize that we humans have an amazing capacityfor not seeing what's there... to the point whereit can be very bad for us.
Like I just said, we often ARGUE about thingsthat are OBVIOUS to others... which makes it evenworse.
I need to stop ranting and raving, and land theplane on this one...
This mechanism is, of course, a survivalmechanism that helps us to weed out all of theuseless information that's coming in through oursenses at any given time, but it can go overboardand prevent us from seeing USEFUL information aswell.
Next Point: A lot of our cultural and socialprogramming is "off-base" to some degree, whichcauses us to see things and interpret thingsincorrectly when we do see them.
Finally, we humans don't like to change ourbeliefs about things. We don't like to admit thatwe might be wrong in the first place, and we feelunstable or insecure when we realize that afundamental truth we have held all our life isincorrect.
Lump all of this together, and you have momswho teach their sons the "proper" way to act andmen who have NO IDEA how to be successful withwomen... and then women who REALLY get upset whenyou actually start teaching men what WORKS toattract women (for more evidence of this, justread some of these newsletters I'm sending you!)
Wow, I'm really going on an unusuallyintellectual rant today! Nice. This is making mefeel pretty smart... I think I'll keep it up...
So, what's all this information good for?
Well, to start off, I think that it's importantin life to continually question YOUR OWN beliefsabout how things work and what is possible.
I think it's also good to constantly questionyour LIMITING beliefs.
Unfortunately, most people do the opposite...they question their ability to succeed and theydoubt their own ability to get what they want.
Most people constantly "self-sabotage"themselves.
If instead, you question your LIMITATIONS andyour LIMITING BELIEFS, and you constantly lookwith your own eyes to see if there's somethinggoing on that nobody mentioned to you, then you'llbegin to see things that will blow your mind.
It took me about 4 or 5 years to realize thatATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. But as soon as I sayit, you can immediately get what I'm talkingabout, and maybe even have a profound realizationthat will lead to success.
The phrase "Attraction Isn't A Choice" makesyou have the "ah ha" that you can't make a womanfeel attraction for you by CONVINCING her... soyou STOP.
Now, I didn't figure this out by having someoneTELL it to me. I figured it out by questioning thethings I was hearing, and by following my ownintuition that there was a SOLUTION to this puzzlecalled "women and dating".
So, here's a "home work" assignment for you:
1 - Write down all of the things that SHOULD workwhen it comes to making women feel attracted toyou. This might include buying gifts and food,giving constant compliments, and acting "nice".
2 - Write down your own personal experience ofwhat ACTUALLY HAPPENS when you do these "sociallycorrect things that mom taught you" with women.
3 - Pretend for a moment that everything you'vebeen taught about women is wrong. Furthermore,pretend that women are actually wired in REVERSE.If this were true, what kinds of things wouldresult in a woman feeling ATTRACTION for a man?
Does this open up some new possibilities foryou?
I invite you to question "common sense" and"what your mother taught you" about women.
I also invite you to come and learn some of theVERY ILLOGICAL, YET INCREDIBLY POWERFUL techniquesthat I've learned, developed, refined, anddescribed in my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVDprogram.
The ideas that I've just discussed are part ofwhat I consider to be the "Inner Game" of datingsuccess.
Most guys spend almost NO time working on theirInner Game... instead, they spend time learningthings like "pick up lines" and other almostUSELESS stuff.
If you don't have your "Inner Game" together,you'll never be effective with "techniques andtricks".
In my Advanced Dating Techniques program, Ispend several HOURS teaching you one Inner Gametechnique after another... showing you how toovercome fear, improve your self image and selfesteem... and get past limiting beliefs that stopyou from even TRYING to meet women.
If you're like me, and you've had a lot ofnegative programming earlier in life, then youMUST get that stuff handled. It's not going tohandle itself... YOU have to do it.
And this program will show you EXACTLY how.
Oh... and it will also teach you TONS of great"in the field" techniques for approaching women,starting conversations, getting dates, meetingwomen online, and taking things to a "physical"level smoothly and easily... without rejection.
Not too long ago I put up a bunch of new samplevideo clips... and you should go watch them rightnow. They're here:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//AdvancedSeries/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=3&sbid=2571750
And if you haven't downloaded your copy of myonline eBook, "Double Your Dating", then you needto go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download itand be reading it in just a few minutes from now.Just go here:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//eBook/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=4&sbid=2571750
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Hey, don't forget to take some time to lookthrough all of my different DVD/CD programs. Youcan see them all, plus watch video clips of all ofthem in this one handy place:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//Catalog/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=5&sbid=2571750
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//Catalog/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=1&sbid=2571750
***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***
Dave, Why is it that a woman who is onlyinterested in the funny, cocky and challenging(i.e., interesting) men, later in life tries toraise sons that are sweet, thoughtful and "nice"?(i.e., run of the mill)!! WS New York
>>>MY COMMENTS:
This is a VERY interesting question, and I'mglad you emailed me to ask it.
I'm going to give you my personal take on this.But, more importantly, I'm going to talk about howthese kinds of paradoxes exist right in plainsight all around us... and how to interpret themso you can increase your own personal success withwomen and dating.
So, to answer your question first...
I've spent a lot of time researching thistopic, and doing a lot of personal testing to seeif I could find some answers.
Right now, as I write this, I think that itgoes like this:
"Being Nice" in the way that you're describing,usually means things like: giving compliments,buying gifts, providing food, doing favors,tolerating emotional manipulation, pretending tobe in a good mood even if you're not, etc.
I believe that this is mostly a SOCIALLY andCULTURALLY CONSTRUCTED set of "rules". There maybe some "hard wiring" in us that makes us"naturally" want to do nice things for women sothey'll give us approval, but I think it's mostlyPROGRAMMED into us...
Now, think about it this way: These "nice"things are typically very FEMININE things to do...
So, what's a mom in today's culture going toteach her son?
Of course... how to be "nice" to girls.
And, what if there's no dad around to help outin the "training" of a son? You guessed it... evenMORE "nice" programming from mom.
The bottom line is that most of the peoplewalking around on this planet have NO IDEA howATTRACTION works, and therefore will never be ableto TEACH another person how this fabulous processworks.
This includes mothers. Mom loved you and wantedthe best for you, she just had no idea how toexplain what makes women feel ATTRACTION. Mom mayhave gotten the tingles when she saw ClintEastwood shooting everyone... and Neil Diamondrunning around with his sneer, hairy chest andthat pickle in his jeans... (and that remindsme... EWWWWWW... your mom is gross, dude).
But, this doesn't mean that she can or wouldexplain to her boy how to make this happen withother women!
Check this out: If you would like to learn myown PERSONAL secrets for how to overcome thisproblem of not knowing how to become a man whoNATURALLY attracts women, then you should go hereNOW:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//OnBeingAMan/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=2&sbid=2571750
OK. Let's talk about what we can actually LEARNfrom this kind of phenomenon.
The thing that really fascinates me aboutpeople is THEIR ABILITY TO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT'SGOING ON... even though it's going on IN PLAINSIGHT ALL AROUND THEM... and the even MORE amazingtendency to ARGUE VIOLENTLY WHEN one of theseOBVIOUS THINGS IS PRESENTED TO THEM.
I've read some fascinating books about theconcept of "self-deception", and I've come torealize that we humans have an amazing capacityfor not seeing what's there... to the point whereit can be very bad for us.
Like I just said, we often ARGUE about thingsthat are OBVIOUS to others... which makes it evenworse.
I need to stop ranting and raving, and land theplane on this one...
This mechanism is, of course, a survivalmechanism that helps us to weed out all of theuseless information that's coming in through oursenses at any given time, but it can go overboardand prevent us from seeing USEFUL information aswell.
Next Point: A lot of our cultural and socialprogramming is "off-base" to some degree, whichcauses us to see things and interpret thingsincorrectly when we do see them.
Finally, we humans don't like to change ourbeliefs about things. We don't like to admit thatwe might be wrong in the first place, and we feelunstable or insecure when we realize that afundamental truth we have held all our life isincorrect.
Lump all of this together, and you have momswho teach their sons the "proper" way to act andmen who have NO IDEA how to be successful withwomen... and then women who REALLY get upset whenyou actually start teaching men what WORKS toattract women (for more evidence of this, justread some of these newsletters I'm sending you!)
Wow, I'm really going on an unusuallyintellectual rant today! Nice. This is making mefeel pretty smart... I think I'll keep it up...
So, what's all this information good for?
Well, to start off, I think that it's importantin life to continually question YOUR OWN beliefsabout how things work and what is possible.
I think it's also good to constantly questionyour LIMITING beliefs.
Unfortunately, most people do the opposite...they question their ability to succeed and theydoubt their own ability to get what they want.
Most people constantly "self-sabotage"themselves.
If instead, you question your LIMITATIONS andyour LIMITING BELIEFS, and you constantly lookwith your own eyes to see if there's somethinggoing on that nobody mentioned to you, then you'llbegin to see things that will blow your mind.
It took me about 4 or 5 years to realize thatATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. But as soon as I sayit, you can immediately get what I'm talkingabout, and maybe even have a profound realizationthat will lead to success.
The phrase "Attraction Isn't A Choice" makesyou have the "ah ha" that you can't make a womanfeel attraction for you by CONVINCING her... soyou STOP.
Now, I didn't figure this out by having someoneTELL it to me. I figured it out by questioning thethings I was hearing, and by following my ownintuition that there was a SOLUTION to this puzzlecalled "women and dating".
So, here's a "home work" assignment for you:
1 - Write down all of the things that SHOULD workwhen it comes to making women feel attracted toyou. This might include buying gifts and food,giving constant compliments, and acting "nice".
2 - Write down your own personal experience ofwhat ACTUALLY HAPPENS when you do these "sociallycorrect things that mom taught you" with women.
3 - Pretend for a moment that everything you'vebeen taught about women is wrong. Furthermore,pretend that women are actually wired in REVERSE.If this were true, what kinds of things wouldresult in a woman feeling ATTRACTION for a man?
Does this open up some new possibilities foryou?
I invite you to question "common sense" and"what your mother taught you" about women.
I also invite you to come and learn some of theVERY ILLOGICAL, YET INCREDIBLY POWERFUL techniquesthat I've learned, developed, refined, anddescribed in my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVDprogram.
The ideas that I've just discussed are part ofwhat I consider to be the "Inner Game" of datingsuccess.
Most guys spend almost NO time working on theirInner Game... instead, they spend time learningthings like "pick up lines" and other almostUSELESS stuff.
If you don't have your "Inner Game" together,you'll never be effective with "techniques andtricks".
In my Advanced Dating Techniques program, Ispend several HOURS teaching you one Inner Gametechnique after another... showing you how toovercome fear, improve your self image and selfesteem... and get past limiting beliefs that stopyou from even TRYING to meet women.
If you're like me, and you've had a lot ofnegative programming earlier in life, then youMUST get that stuff handled. It's not going tohandle itself... YOU have to do it.
And this program will show you EXACTLY how.
Oh... and it will also teach you TONS of great"in the field" techniques for approaching women,starting conversations, getting dates, meetingwomen online, and taking things to a "physical"level smoothly and easily... without rejection.
Not too long ago I put up a bunch of new samplevideo clips... and you should go watch them rightnow. They're here:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//AdvancedSeries/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=3&sbid=2571750
And if you haven't downloaded your copy of myonline eBook, "Double Your Dating", then you needto go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download itand be reading it in just a few minutes from now.Just go here:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//eBook/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=4&sbid=2571750
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. Hey, don't forget to take some time to lookthrough all of my different DVD/CD programs. Youcan see them all, plus watch video clips of all ofthem in this one handy place:
http://www.datingtechniques.com/e//Catalog/?cid=3PZZZ3&lid=5&sbid=2571750
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