The way to take this idea of “slowing down”, and multiply its effectiveness… is to add a simple twist to it.This twist is to actually STOP once in awhile… and GO BACKWARDS a step.

In fact, I call this technique “Two Steps Forward, One Step Back”.And here’s why it works:For a woman, arousal (or being “turned on”) is all about ANTICIPATION.Men get turned on instantly… but women usually take longer. And they ENJOY the process of getting turned on more and more over time.

If you know this simple fact… and you know how to create MENTAL ANTICIPATION… you will know the secret of getting any woman aroused sexually.Here’s how to do it…Next time you’re with a woman, tell yourself that you’re going to STOP at every “base”, and take a step BACK.

Let’s say you’ve kissed her for the first time.STOP.Lean back.Smile at her.Start talking again.And don’t touch her for several minutes.Now, why’s that?Because she’s going to be thinking to herself “Why did he stop?” and “Is there something wrong” and “Is he going to kiss me again?”.

And the more she thinks and wonders, the more TURNED ON she’s going to get.When you do start kissing again, put your arms around her… but DON’T TOUCH any of her “private” areas.

Touch her shoulders. Touch her arms. Pull her close. But DON’T TOUCH the “R Rated” zones.And then… you guessed it…STOP.Lean back.Smile at her again.Lay close to her with your arm around her… very still.

During the time you were kissing her and touching her, she will be thinking “Why isn’t he trying to touch me all over?” and “I’d better be ready to stop him”.But you didn’t touch her in any of those places. And she didn’t get to “stop you”.And now that you’ve stopped, she’s thinking even more… and getting even MORE aroused.

Are you learning something?Good.Now go and use this technique, and see for yourself how powerful a simple idea like this one can be…Now, I just shared a very simple… but very POWERFUL technique.And, as I mentioned, it is “counter intuitive”. It’s not something you probably would have figured out “on your own”.

Well, just like that one idea was both counter intuitive… AND easy to learn… all of the steps to building Sexual Confidence and Sexual Experience are basically the same.You can learn them.Quickly.Easily.No hassle.Oh, and it’s FUN to learn them. It’s not only interesting, it’s also wonderfully challenging. The more you learn, the more fun it is… and the more you WANT to learn…

How To Increase A Woman's Desire For You

If you're interested in the topicof DESIRE, and how to make a woman feel it foryou, then you need to learn how ATTRACTION works.If you don't know this amazing secret, then youmight want to check THIS out before you read therest of this newsletter:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//SexualCommunication/?cid=NZZZVJ&lid=1 >>>

QUESTION OF THE WEEK:Dave,You are a saint. A giant among insects... Ok,maybe not, but it gets through the obligatory ass-kissing since you have helped me so much. Let mebegin...I've had my eyes on this particular girl for quitesome time, and I could tell she was already intome quite a bit, but we had never made anything ofit. Last week, she decided to "be bold" and ask MEout, instead of the other way around (you can seeI'm already doing something right). She asked if Iwanted to go see a movie some time; instead offreaking out and jumping at the chance, I said I'mrather tired of this whole `movie date' thing. Ifshe wanted to get me, she was going to have to bea little more creative. She was rather shocked andfelt somewhat rejected. Later in the conversation,we were got to talking about this stalker (wussywho needs a life) that seems to be in love withher, and she hates him. He had asked her if shewanted to accompany him to a football game thenext night that they both were already going to.She said she really wished that I would come withher so this guy would leave her alone. I thought,"Ok. This will be my good deed for the year." andsaid I would go. She ends up driving me to thegame. Upon arrival, she just HAD to braid herhair, and asked me to wait around while she didso. I stood there for a second, and then walkedoff. She started yelling at me to wait; I simplyreplied, "I'll see you inside the gate." waved andwalked off. Once inside, I didn't see her come in,but soon felt someone grab my butt (it was her).We went on into the stadium, she soon saw someoneshe knew and went to talk to them, dragging mealong. I stood around for a second, then wanderedoff, since I had seen someone I knew as well. Shecomes to find me soon, and we go off to our seats.Her stalker had seen us as we were going to ourseats and decided to stay with us for part of thenight. She began talking to him, and I did my ownthing. I wandered off numerous times throughoutthe night and generally acted very secure and likeI didn't need a thing in the world (especiallyher!). Following the game, as we walked back toher car I could tell that she wanted me badly dueto some things she had been saying. She drove meback to where my car was waiting and we talked fortwenty minutes or so in her car. There was somehand holding and such going on during theconversation.

She said, "You know we're just goingto end up making out-you're just delaying theinevitable." Bingo. I shrugged it off, and wecontinued talking. About ten minutes later, shesaid, "It's getting late; I really should begetting home."

Obviously a ploy to get thingsstarted, as it was only 10:15 PM. I shrugged it off, again. A few minutes pass, and she says,"It's late, I really need to go." I say,"Alright." I open the door and get out of the car.She says, "Where are you going?"

I replynonchalantly, "I just don't think you want it badly enough yet."

Score #2. I walk off to my car;she immediately jumps out of the car and beginswalking to my car as well. I get to the car andput the key in the door and she sticks her leg infront of the door with this defiant attitude. Isay, "You know, I've never been raped in an emptyparking lot before..."You can imagine what went on from there. JThanks Dave.Now, on to the questions: First, now that I'veused my best line ever ("I just don't think youwant it badly enough yet."), do you have anysuggestions on what to do and say next time tocreate that same anticipation/desire in her?Also, you always say that I need to be the firstto end the conversation, but many of the girlsthat I am interested in are somewhat sporadic andtend to call, IM, etc. when they don't have a lotof time. Quite often, they are the ones to end theconversation before I have a chance to. How do Itake this? Should I just reply, "Alright. I'llcatch you later." Acting like I could care less?D. Knoxville, TN>>>MY COMMENTS: Great story. I'm sure that anyone reading this would say"Yeah, but she already liked you"... I wish youwould have told the story from the beginning,because I'll bet you MADE her like you with moreof the same type communication that you describedhere. The one thing that you clearly understand hereis how SEXUAL TENSION works. You understand how to take a small spark ofdesire from her and AMPLIFY it until it'sliterally EXPLOSIVE. If you keep amplifying and letting the tensionbuild with a particular woman, this is the kind ofresult you'll get... and she will LOVE you for it. Bravo! Things like making her come up with a more"interesting" date idea, walking away from herwhen other guys would have clung to her, shruggingoff her comments about the two of you gettingtogether, etc. are the magic ingredients. Most guys DESTROY all the sexual tension atevery possible opportunity... they take everychance they can to SCREW THINGS UP because theydon't know better... The fact is that most men just don't UNDERSTANDhow women get turned on. And most men don't understand that if youreally want a woman to WANT you, then you NEED toget her turned on. It's not going to happen byitself. Hey, if you want to learn more about how tocreate this thing I'm calling "Sexual Tension",and more about how to get women turned on, then gohere now:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//SexualCommunication/?cid=NZZZVJ&lid=2 Here's another interesting aspect of that thingcalled ATTRACTION: The bigger the challenge you are, and the moreintense the sexual tension, the more aroused awoman will become... so that when you finally doconnect physically it's pure electricity. Again, most men can't HANDLE sexual tension.They feel uncomfortable when the situation isn't"clear cut", and they screw things up. One of the things you mentioned doing was"shrugging off" her obvious "come ons" to you. This kind of thing makes no sense to most guys. But it makes sense to me. And it made a LOT of sense to HER. When a woman throws out a sexual comment, etc.most guys screw it up. That's because they don'tknow the SECRET about these types of comments. When you're a major challenge, it naturallymeans that she's not IN CONTROL of the situation. Attractive women are USED to being in control,so when they're NOT in control, they get agitated.It really bothers them. So they TEST. They use all kinds of interestingtricks and tactics to see if you're just FAKINGlike you're actually in control of yourself andthe situation. One of the most obvious tests is throwing out asexual comment. She might mention that she loves sex, or thatshe thinks you guys have a chance of "hooking up",or some other "tease". But make no mistake about it, these commentsare not at all the innocent remarks that theyappear to be. She's watching VERY closely to see if you'lltake the bait. It's a woman's last resort when she feels likeshe isn't controlling the situation to see ifyou'll crumble to SOMETHING. -- If you saysomething like, "Really? You think we're going tohook up? That would be cool." Then she KNOWS SHE'SIN CONTROL. If you say, "Yeah, you think so? I don't know,I'm not that easy..." then it just dials up thetension, mystery, and challenge. OK, so you've asked me a couple of questions aswell... What should you do NEXT time you see her tokeep the tension building...? Well, if something works, KEEP DOING IT. If she enjoyed it the first time, do it again. This time wait a little longer. Make her thinkabout it a little bit more. Women LOVE anticipation. They love to feel therush that something is going to happen... but notknow WHEN. If you REALLY want to take things to the nextlevel, take a page from popular movies and romancenovels. Don't just kiss her. Kiss her PASSIONATELY. Pull her body into yours as you kiss her. Then push her away and say, "You're bad!" Stop for awhile. Make her think about it. Thenstart again when she isn't expecting it. These are the types of things that make womenthink about you all the time when you're gone...and call you in the middle of the night becausethey want to see you. Really. Most men are so damn BORING when it comes tothis stuff! They do NOTHING to make a woman FEELthe powerful feelings that she's always wanted tofeel. You be the one to do it, and you'll be the oneshe always wants around. Your second question was about ending calls andconversations first. The REASON why you should end all conversationsand other interactions with women first is that itconveys a clear message: "I'M A BUSY GUY. I HAVE A LIFE." It turns YOU into the one that's desirable. Most guys cling, and try to keep a woman on thephone for a long time. They desire a woman'sattention and approval, and they make it clearthat this is what they're after. Of course, this only demonstrates pure WEAKNESSto an attractive woman. And weakness (or Wussness) isn't ATTRACTIVE. If you run into a woman who's always on therun, don't let it get to you. To put itdifferently, don't become obsessed with her justbecause she's never available! The answer is to just take things to the nextlevel. Here's a GREAT little technique... An amazing and simple way to handle this kindof thing is to just say "OK, bye" without anyother comments. She says "I have to go, my friends are waitingfor me outside". Just say "OK, bye" and SHUT UP. 80% of the time, she'll say "No, wait! I'm justreally busy, call me in a few days" etc. You can't "kind of" do this. You have to be READY. She's TESTING you by playing hard to get. It'sa game. Have fun with it. As soon as she says "I have to go, my laundryis in the dryer", you SHOOT back "OK, bye" in aVERY abrupt tone and SHUT UP. It will create a funny, uncomfortable silencefor just a second. Most of the time, she'll say something in atone of voice that says "That was weird", and thenshe'll give some kind of explanation or ask youwhy you were so short with her. Of course, this is a great opportunity to busther balls and create some fun banter. Again, you'll often have her say something like"I'm really busy right now. I'm sorry. Call metomorrow and let's do something". At this point,you can say "Yeah, if you're lucky. Bye!" Not cold. Not mean. Just short and to thepoint. Then, when you call her next, it was HER thatasked for the call. You get to call up and say "Well, last time wetalked you were begging me to call you... and Ifelt so bad for you that I finally broke down." What we're talking about here is DESIRE... andmore importantly, INCREASING IT. In most interactions with women there is anopportunity to SPARK the chemistry... the sexualtension... the desire... and then there are manyopportunities to AMPLIFY that desire. But here's the BAD news: If you do not understand all of the littlesteps from the first meeting to the bedroom, andknow exactly how to smoothly progress from onestep to the next, then you're going to keepfailing with women. It's that simple. If you DO understand all of the steps, and youknow EXACTLY what to do in order to smoothlytransition from one to the next, then you are MUCHmore likely to succeed. One of the most IMPORTANT steps is controllingyour own emotions. If you're nervous and freakedout, then you'll make her nervous. We humans can SMELL fear and nervousness... andwomen are the best at it. If you'd like to get an ADVANCED education inhow to control your own emotions, how to sparkATTRACTION, and how to go from one step to thenext smoothly, then I recommend you check out myAdvanced Dating Techniques program. It's over 12 full hours of me teaching all ofmy very best theories, concepts, and strategiesfor becoming more successful with women anddating. What makes my program different? Two things:1) It's easy to understand and use IMMEDIATELY.2) It "feels right". In other words, you'll learnhow to use the natural dynamics in any situationto make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you... withouthaving to MANIPULATE her "secretly". As you learn the concepts and techniques andbegin to use them in situations with women, youwill see women LIGHT UP in front of you. You'll IMMEDIATELY notice the different waythat they respond to your comments. You'll begin to see all of the reasons why youfailed in the past, and you'll understand the "oneright thing" to do in each situation... so thatyou move FORWARD and stay in control of thesituation. Most of all, it will give you the CONFIDENCE toattract the kinds of women that most men onlydream about dating. I'm telling you, I used to have no clue aboutattracting women... but now that I do, I can dateany type of women I want. And it's a damn goodfeeling. All the details of my program are here, alongwith some great free samples:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//AdvancedSeries/?cid=NZZZVJ&lid=3 If you've gone through my Advanced Series, andyou think that you might need more focus on the"Inner Game"... then you MUST check out my "DeepInner Game" DVD program. This is the first time that a program has beencreated to help men fix their Inner Game problemsSPECIFICALLY to improve their dating success. Go and watch the preview video clips for thisprogram, and it will tell you the entire story.You can go and watch them here:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//DeepInnerGame/?cid=NZZZVJ&lid=4 And if you'd like an introduction to my mainconcepts, then you need to go download and read myonline eBook "Double Your Dating". You candownload it right now and be reading it within afew minutes. It's here:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//eBook/?cid=NZZZVJ&lid=5 I'll talk to you again soon. Your Friend, David D.P.S. I've written the story of how I learned tomeet women, and included a personal description ofeach of my different programs... plus put somevideo clips of my different programs right here:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//Catalog/?cid=NZZZVJ&lid=6

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How To "Evict" Your Inner Wussy
>NOTE: If you're really interested in learning howto get rid of your "Inner Wussy" for good... andhow to build a rock-solid confidence level that isNATURALLY attractive to women, then take a minuteand check THIS out:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//DeepInnerGame/?cid=ZVJBZZ&lid=1

HOW TO EVICT YOUR INNER WUSSY......
OR...HOW TO STOP DOING THE WRONG THINGS AND START DOINGTHE RIGHT THINGS TO ATTRACT MORE WOMEN AND KEEPTHEM ATTRACTED!

I was talking to a good friend of mine a fewnights ago, and he told me an interesting story. He was walking home recently, when he walked bya couple who were obviously in an emotionaldiscussion. As it turned out, the woman was breaking upwith the man, and he was trying to understand why.

The interchange went something like this:Her: "I'm not ATTRACTED to you anymore... I justdon't FEEL IT."Him: "But I would do ANYTHING to make this work...
I'll do anything you want... just tell me what todo."

Her: "That's the problem. You just don't get it." ...
and that was all he heard.

Have you ever been there? Have you ever had a girlfriend break up withyou, or just drift away, and the more you tried tohold on, the further she ran from you?

And themore you tried to be a "good guy" and please her,the more distant she became? Well, me too. I've been there MORE than once inmy life. And it ALWAYS SUCKED. The worst part about it was NEVER UNDERSTANDINGWHAT THE HECK WAS GOING ON!

I can remember being that guy I just told youthe story about... and asking "Why? Why are youconfused? What do I have to do to make this work?" I was willing to change, act different, orwhatever. Little did I know at the time, but it was thisEXACT attitude that led to all the problems in thefirst place. If you've read my newsletters for awhile now,you probably know that women don't feel theemotion called ATTRACTION for guys who act weak,needy, insecure and "WUSS-LIKE". But unless you know this to begin with, thenit's ALL TOO EASY to become a "nice", overly-accommodating, uninteresting, predictable, boringguy... and even though it seems logical that awoman should love to be treated like a queen atall times, you've probably found out, just like Ihave, that this combination usually leads to awoman either 1) Leaving you... or 2) Becomingincreasingly controlling, domineering, andneurotic. So what's up with that? Why does this happen?And more importantly, what can we do to avoidgetting into this horrible position of losing awoman's attention because we're trying to be niceto her? Here's my take, after studying this stuff formany, many years now...

1. ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. In other words, we humans don't CHOOSE who wefeel attracted to... and, JUST AS IMPORTANT, whowe DON'T feel attracted to. ATTRACTION happens for reasons all its own, andthese reasons have evolved inside of us over time. While culture, peer pressure, and trends canshape our natural drives slightly, theFUNDAMENTALS NEVER CHANGE.

2. MEN ARE ATTRACTED MORE TO LOOKS, WOMEN AREATTRACTED MORE TO PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER. Most men can't believe it, but to a woman yourlooks just aren't that important. Sure, if you don't take care of yourself, don'tbathe, and let two of your front teeth rot out youmight scare away the ladies. But for the most part, women will look pastjust about ANY physical issue if she feels thatall-important emotion called ATTRACTION. And ATTRACTION is created by your PERSONALITY. For women, ATTRACTION is triggered by malequalities like: Dominance, Humor,Unpredictability, Adventure, Strength, SexualAwareness, Indifference, etc. I've put an entire program together that'sfocused on teaching you JUST the elements ofcommunication that make women feel ATTRACTION...and I call it "Sexual Communication". If you wantto learn more about this powerful method ofcommunicating with women, go check this out

:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//SexualCommunication/?cid=ZVJBZZ&lid=2 3.

WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES. 'Nuff said.4. WOMEN TEST MEN BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO. When a woman begins to feel a romantic connection with you, she faces an interestingproblem... How can she tell for sure if your character andpersonality are the way you're expressing them?

As we all know, men and women BOTH show off andexaggerate their "good sides" while downplayingand hiding their negative traits at first. This iswhy men suck-in their guts, brag, and show off...and why women wear makeup, do their hair, and shopall day for their clothes. If you were a woman, and you needed to figureout if a man was showing you his "true self", howwould you do it? What if you had to know FOR SURE?

The only way is to TEST on an ongoing basis,and to keep escalating the tests to be sure. Put all this together (with a bunch of otherfactors that I don't have time to talk about) andyou get an interesting problem that women face...

A woman responds to a man that stirs heremotions, and causes her to want him so badly thatshe'll put aside all logic and reason to be withhim. But what if the man is just pretending? What ifhe only SEEMS to be this confident, funny, manly-man on the outside, but he's actually a push-overWUSS-BAG that is insecure and makes up for it byacting like a tough guy?

Or worse yet, what if he's a WUSS all the time,and she just happened to settle for him because hewas available and persistent... and she didn'thave anything better going on at the time... butnow she has other options?

Well, these are the kinds of situations, thatwhen played out, lead to the story that I startedwith... a man begging a woman to stay... pleadingwith her to explain what he has to do to keep her.

Of course, this is all WUSSY behavior, and itonly serves to put the final nail in the coffin,convincing the object of your desire that you areABSOLUTELY, beyond the shadow of any doubt, aWuss.

So what's the answer? The answer is to NEVER BE THOUGHT OF AS A WUSSYAGAIN! If you want to make your dating life a wholelot better and easier, then stop and think aboutyour behavior... and resolve right now to stopacting like a WUSS for the rest of your life.

Being "nice" and "accommodating" and"understanding" is great for friendships andsocial relationships, but it's HORRIBLE forATTRACTION. An interesting, attractive woman doesn't want aguy that she can push around.

She doesn't want aguy who does what she wants him to do. She doesn'twant a little boy that she can train and raise. An interesting, attractive woman wants a MAN. This doesn't make LOGICAL sense, I know. Butit's the truth.

These submissive qualities willonly work in attracting a woman IF SHE LIKESDRESSING UP IN LEATHER AND WHIPPING HER MAN...
ANDCHARGING $400.00 AN HOUR!

And my guess is that this isn't the kind ofwoman that you're looking for. I've explained some of the important qualitiesthat you need to cultivate in yourself if you wantto attract women... and keep them attracted.

If you'd like to get an extensive education, aDEEP UNDERSTANDING, and a full set of tools andtechniques that you can use, you need to check outmy "Advanced Dating Techniques" CD/DVD Program. Inthis program, I share literally hundreds of ideas,concepts, techniques, and strategies for meetingand attracting women... stuff you'll never findanywhere else. How do I know you won't find it anywhere else?

Because I personally TRIED everything else. I spent YEARS learning, testing, and refiningall of the best techniques... and I've onlyincluded what WORKS. During my own "learning phase", I watched,interviewed, and learned from guys who wereUNBELIEVABLE with women. I also read literally HUNDREDS of books... wentto seminars... and listened to audio programs... I really tried it ALL. Most of it didn't work. Some of it worked a little. And a very FEW things worked so well that Icouldn't BELIEVE it. In my Advanced Series, I ONLY include the stuffthat REALLY works. I'm serious. Go check out some of the preview video clipsthat I have on the website. I think you'll seeIMMEDIATELY that this program is PACKED with tipsand techniques that will help you meet more womenNOW. You can watch the video clips here:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//AdvancedSeries/?cid=ZVJBZZ&lid=3

Here's a question for you: How can a woman tell whether or not you'vegotten rid of your "Inner Wussy" INSTANTLY?

If you guessed "from your BODY LANGUAGE" thenyou're RIGHT ON. What's the most IMPORTANT aspect ofcommunication with women? If you guessed "BODY LANGUAGE", then you'reRIGHT AGAIN. What's the one place you can get a completeeducation on how to use your Body Language toproject a powerful, masculine presence to women...that instantly triggers ATTRACTION?

If you guessed "David DeAngelo's Body LanguageFor Success With Women And Dating Program", thenyou're right yet again... and you win. Go check out the preview video clips of thisprogram here... you'll be glad you did:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//BodyLanguage/?cid=ZVJBZZ&lid=4

And if you haven't taken the opportunity todownload your copy of my online eBook "Double YourDating", then go and do that right now. It is thefoundation for everything I teach. You candownload it and be reading it within a few minutesfrom right now. Just go here:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//eBook/?cid=ZVJBZZ&lid=5

I'll talk to you again in a couple of days. Your Friend, David D.P.S. Take a couple of minutes, and go watch someof the video clips of all the different programsI've created to help you learn to meet women. Youcan see them all, and get the details right here:http://www.DatingTechniques.com/e//Catalog/?cid=ZVJBZZ&lid=6

P.P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphsmax.2) Tell me what's working for you before you askyour question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuffis great" and "I don't need to tell you how wellyour stuff works" comments, but the fact is that IDO need to hear all of the specifics... becausethis helps other guys to see what's working indifferent situations.3) If you have a Success Story, write "SuccessStory" in the subject line of the email. I readthese first.4) At the end of the email, give me your initialsand tell me where you're from.5) Send it to me at:SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com ...don't just hit "reply" to this email.

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Why is it that so many guys act like WUSSIES around women?

Well, there are a lot of reasons. For some guys, it's an AUTOMATIC, PROGRAMMED response. See cute girl, act like Wussbag. A lot of guys have learned that being "nice" topeople makes them "like" you. Unfortunately, no one has ever told most of usguys that making a woman LIKE you isn't veryimportant. Making a woman feel ATTRACTION for you IS. Evicting the "Inner Wussy" isn't always easyfor guys. Some of us LOVE our Inner Wuss. We're proud of how sweet, thoughtful, loving,and clingy we are. Most guys think of their Inner Wuss in aPOSITIVE LIGHT. We humans don't like to admit that what we'vebeen doing for most of our lives was WRONG. That'sanother reason. It takes a lot for most guys is to SEE WITHTHEIR OWN TWO EYES how NOT being a Wuss affectswomen... and how it makes women RESPONDdifferently. Once you realize how your Inner Wussy is makingwomen RUN away from you, it gets easier to EVICTit.

Women say things like: "He's sexy"... "There's chemistry betweenus"...

"I really feel something for him"... etc. And also remember: If a woman feels a strongATTRACTION for you, then the rest of the equationisn't as important. If she feels it, she'll go outof her way to find good reasons to be with you...even if you're not her "physical type".

On the other hand, no amount of gifts, favors,dinners, kindness, or a good family will make herfeel ATTRACTION... at best these things can onlymake her feel a more "loyal" kind of love. So, if women don't like "average" guys and themost important thing is to make her feelATTRACTION towards you, then how do you do it?

I thought you'd never ask... Let's talk about the word "average" and what itREALLY means. As far as women are concerned, and especiallythe ATTRACTIVE ones, men are EVERYWHERE. They'relike cars. Every once in awhile one stands out andmakes you say, "Oh, that one is nice." A lot of guys take this concept too far and say"Well, I'm not rich, and I'm not famous... so, noreally hot woman is going to find me attractive."

My experience and research has shown me thatwomen are far more ATTRACTED to things likeattitude, confidence, body language, humor, etc.than looks or money. Sure, those things mightINITIALLY get a woman's attention, and there arethose women that will only settle for a rich orunusually handsome guy... but, this is the extrememinority. In fact, it's very easy to be seen as "aboveaverage" if you know what women are looking for,and you know how to deliver. Remember the danger: If you are perceived as"average" early on, then a switch goes off in hermind, and the game will be over before it's evenbegun.

So, let's do a little exercise... Let's figure out two things:1) What most guys do that women see as "average",and...2) What you can do to instantly be seen as "ABOVEaverage" and, most importantly, ATTRACTIVE. First, let's talk about what most guys do inmost situations (more specifically, what most guysdo WRONG). Here are some of the things that I'veseen... If the setting is a bar or a club, most guyswill either say, "Can I buy you a drink?", "Wannadance?", or "Hey baby, how YOU doin'?"... or theydo crass things like stare at women with wantingeyes or grab them as they walk by.

If the setting is a public place, like maybe awoman working at a clothing store, a waitress, orsome other similar high-traffic situation, mostguys will ask a lame question like "Do you have aboyfriend?" or "Can I take you out sometime?" Ugh.

These kinds of approaches can only result inyou being seen as another lame, average guy. Here are a few ideas to try instead...

If you're in a bar or club setting, try askinga woman or a group of women THEIR OPINION onsomething. I personally like this one: "Hey, my friends and I were talking and we needa female perspective... What do you ladies thinkabout this new trend of women being proud ofpaying their own way and buying their own things?Like the Destiny's Child song "Independent Woman?"

Women will usually ENTHUSIASTICALLY join into aconversation like this one. (I personally likethis topic because it starts off by talking aboutwomen taking care of themselves in a positivelight, which sets the stage for not having to payfor a lot of things right up front!) A quick note: Any conversation topic can beturned into flirting and there is a very specialART to this. If you want to learn how to reallybecome a master of taking any conversation topicand turning it into ATTRACTION, then you reallyneed to go and check this out right now:http://DoubleYourDatingSystem.com/e//SexualCommunication/?cid=8VZZZV&lid=2


If you're out in a public place, at a storewhere a woman is working or some other high-traffic place, you might try something like this: After chatting about whatever business you'redoing there say, "Hey, are you single?" I love this question! It's such a shocker, andit says all the right things. Most guys say, "Doyou have a boyfriend?" which is the usualquestion. "Are you single?" is much more forward,and most women have to do a double take to thinkfor a moment. If she pauses, I say, "I'll take that as aYES...", which is pretty funny and usually gets alaugh.

In either of these cases, it's now time to getthe digits and get out. You already know that I'mnot a fan of standing around and trying to keep aconversation going for any longer than you haveto. So, after two or three minutes of small talkand general conversation, just go into the "3Minute Phone Number" close that you've learned inan earlier newsletter or in my book... Say, "It was nice talking to you, I'm going toget back to my friends... (or shopping, orwhatever)" and as you turn away, turn back and say"Do you have email...?" etc.

These two scenarios are obviously very simple,and also very easy. I've had guys say to me,"Well, there's nothing really that different aboutthose approaches." Ah, but there is. The most important difference is that you'redoing something COMPLETELY different than theother 47 guys who have approached her that day...and you also know EXACTLY what you're going to doand say and the conversation progresses.

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what american women want

Ask the average man what women want and what would the answer be?
I asked a few unsuspecting colleagues. Here's what they said...

"The moon on a stick?" came the first reply, swiftly followed by: "Oh, I don’t know, security?"Happily, I can report that 9 out of 10 males met my question with a sensible answer.

"To be made a fuss of," replied one. "Cuddles and reassurance," said another. The youngest of my male co-workers (a baby-faced 23-year-old geek) pondered for a few moments then said: "All women are different, so it would depend on the individual." Hmm.

Almost every man I asked had a reasonable answer to give. I bravely turned to the office joker. "Hey, Rich, what is it that women really want?" I shouted across the office. "To be loved and cared for," came the straight-faced reply. Suddenly it seemed the conversation had turned serious.

Next I asked women what men want. There was no hesitation here. "Sex," came the resounding answer. Surely men aren’t all that predictable? My married female friend gave it some thought then said: "No, you’re right, they also want food and TV."

We want the same thing So what do women want? A rich husband? Security and reassurance? A man who loves clothes shopping? No, women want the same thing that men want – to feel loved, respected and desired. So where’s the problem? The answer lies in communication.

Men and women want the same things but they tend to express their love, respect and desire in different ways, which can sometimes lead to misunderstandings. I’m not suggesting that men are from Mars and women from Venus. The language barrier is no longer intergalactic. I like to think of it more as a West Country twang that can sometimes make understanding directions difficult.

Imagine this scenario. Your partner gets home after a stressful day at work and collapses on to the sofa. Do you give them a cuddle, ask them how their day was, chat about the next-door neighbours or pour them a large gin and tonic? While women often want to talk about what’s on their mind, many men prefer to be left alone for an hour or so. It’s not that they are emotionally closed off – it’s how they re-charge their batteries.

Learn to speak female
Men also need to learn the female dialect. When asked "Does my bum look big in this?" should a man reply with total honesty? There are ways to tell your beloved that a dress is less than flattering. Compare "You’re sexy whatever you wear but I think you look more gorgeous in the red dress" with "Yes, you could lose a few pounds".

What is important is knowing what makes your other half tick. There is nothing wrong in asking what they would like – although women may be likely to say: "You don’t really care for me or you’d know already without me having to tell you." My only advice to men is to become experts at observation. Remembering dates and details may sound like a female trait – but the good news is that if you men show a little thoughtfulness your partner will at least notice!

Show signs of your affection every day. If your partner likes a cup of tea in the morning then making them one will act as your sign of affection.

We all have little things that mean a lot to us – make a little effort every day if you want to keep your woman – or man – happy.

a lick and a promise

In some things, a lick and a promise will do.
But when it comes to sex – specifically, oral sex – you better back up the promise of pleasure with something much more significant and effective than a simple lick.
In fact, your tongue needs to perform like
a silk brush creating a museum masterpiece.

And I can tell you how it’s done.

Because the art of going down on a woman – performing cunnilingus – is just that… an art. And before you can master it, you need to understand it.

cunnilingus is something every woman wants…

… which means it’s something every
man needs to know.

Yet despite the fact that the vast majority of intimate couples either engage in, or experiment with, the act of cunnilingus on a regular basis…

This isn’t something you’ll read about anywhere else.

This isn’t information that anyone you
know will ever share with you.

Nor is it something your lover will tell
you, because chances are she doesn’t even
know it herself.

She doesn’t need to understand it.

But you do.

The fine art of going down on a woman is something you need to
know if you want to understand:

• what your woman wants from you in bed
• how she wants it
• when she wants it
• how to give it to her
• how to avoid embarrassing or sometimes painful mistakes
• how to debunk commonly-held beliefs about the art of cunnilingus
• how to have her coming back for more, again and again…

A personal message from “the world’s most romantic man,” Michael Webb:
Hey Guys –
I know what you’re thinking. An instructional book about going down on a woman? Really? Whatever for? It’s a natural act, something to figure out with your lover in the heat of the moment. Perhaps you’ve even done your fair share of it and you’ve had no complaints so far, right?
Maybe.
But chances are it’s more like this: you do your best, but you don’t really understand the physical structure of a woman’s genitals to the extent required to maximize her pleasure, or even to avoid painful mistakes. Maybe she comes, maybe she doesn’t – maybe she even fakes her orgasms – but you have no idea what you’re leaving on the table if you don’t explore all the options available.
And if you think you know how it’s done from the adult movies you’ve seen, think again. Because in your bedroom there are no cameras and no director telling you to shift positions because of the lighting. No, there’s only you and your woman, and no one is going to yell “cut!” when something isn’t going right… except, perhaps, her.
You owe it to her to find out. And you owe it to yourself, too, because we both know that the rewards of making a woman happy, and those don’t require an instructional book to understand.
There’s an old saying about healthy relationships: when the sex is good, it’s only about 10% of the relationship. When it’s bad, it’s 90%. Anything in-between is a compromise, and I’m betting this is an area in which you don’t want to settle. Not when there’s a way to learn how to master the thing your woman wants from you more than anything else.
Did you know that…
• there are 8,000 nerve endings in a woman’s clitoris? More than on the head of a penis or any other part of the human body? With something that sensitive, you better know what you’re doing before you go poking around, especially with your tongue.
• 88% of married women say cunnilingus is their preferred form of sexual activity?
• 81% of women regularly achieve orgasm from cunnilingus, versus
only 25% from traditional vaginal penetration?
• only 60% of women say they enjoy vaginal sex at all?
• only 7.7% of women who experience more than 21 minutes of properly rendered foreplay fail to reach an orgasm? That’s over nine out of ten women who do experience an orgasm when their lover understands a woman’s body and how to drive it to new heights of ecstasy.
- Masters and Johnson
These are sobering numbers for men who are paying attention. Because they tell us what women really want from us, and it can be summed up as follows:
They want us to go down on them.
And they want us to do it right.
And that’s where I come in.
Because I’ve talked to hundreds of women and studied the physiological science, and where cunnilingus is concerned, there is no debate. There is a right way and a wrong way to go down on a woman.
And where women are concerned, anything in the middle is the wrong way.
In “Lick By Lick” – How To Go Down on a Woman
And Have Her Begging For More
you’ll learn…

• how to break through her self-consciousness barrier while overcoming your own inhibitions about cunnilingus
• how to recognize and navigate the 8 components of the female genitalia with your tongue, and make them love it
• how to tell if she’s enjoying herself just by watching and listening
• 8 questions to ask to determine what she really wants
• 9 tips for getting her ready for you, and for it
• 5 ways to set the romantic stage for cunnilingus
• 4 techniques to prepare her body for your most intimate attention

All this, and you haven’t even touched
her with your tongue…
… yet.

And then comes the best part…

• 10 sensuous oral techniques that will drive her absolutely wild with pleasure
• advanced variations and tips to make her even hotter
• how to find her G-spot and make it your new best friend
• how to experiment with new positions that enhance pleasure and add variation to your lovemaking
• how to use toys to enhance her pleasure
• what not to do, ever, and why

There’s more to mastering the
art of cunnilingus than knowing
where to put your tongue.

Even more than knowing what to do
with it once you put it there.

Anything worth doing is worth doing right, especially when it comes to making love to a woman. And where cunnilingus is concerned, there are factors involved that create a context of pleasure – or not – that an enlightened partner needs not only to understand, but to be able to discuss, embrace, and sometimes work around.
Sometimes we are intimate with our partners over time, sometimes we may barely know them. This can define the landscape of the issues encountered, and it may dictate the way you approach the prospect of going down on her. In either case, though – whether she’s your wife of many years or someone you’ve met only recently – the enlightened male lover needs to understand much more than the art of orgasms.

In “Lick By Lick” -- How To Go Down
on A Woman And Have Her Begging For More…

… you’ll also learn:

• how to handle the issue of menstruation and oral sex
• how to remain safe against sexually-transmitted disease
• how and when to discuss cunnilingus with her in a way that makes her feel safe, and perhaps excited
• how to master the critical art of timing during foreplay and cunnilingus

For a woman, receiving oral sex from
her lover is the ultimate in pleasure.

When you demonstrate that you understand
and appreciate this, you will become
the ultimate lover.

About the author…
Who better to mentor you in the fine art of pleasuring a woman than a man who, in his quest to become the world’s most loving husband, discovered the secrets of cunnilingus that has earned him the reputation as “the world’s most romantic man.” *
Meet the man who wants every guy to have “Lick by Lick - How To Go Down on A Woman And Have Her Begging For More” …
… Michael Webb
Michael Webb loves women. Not only that, he understands them. He grew up in a home with six sisters and a mother who all suffered abuse at the hands of men. Witnessing their pain he vowed to become the kind of man his sisters and his mother dreamed of having but never had.
And he succeeded beyond even his wildest imagination:
• his site, www.TheRomantic.com, is one of the most popular such sites on the internet, with over 20 million annual visitors
• he is the publisher of three internet newsletters on love and romance, reaching over 200,000 subscribers
• he is the author of twelve best-selling books on romance, dating and relationships
• he as appeared on over 500 radio and television shows
Read what the press has to say about Michael Webb and his work:
"Meet the most romantic husband in America. If you think men have a hard time showing their lovey-dovey side, you haven’t met Michael Webb. He’s so good at it, he actually teaches other guys!"- Woman’s World
"Helps men bring back the sizzle in their relationships" - Fort Wayne Journal Gazette
"Sorry ladies, this gem of a husband (Michael Webb) is reserved for a long, long time."- The Sunday Portland Oregonian
"He’s discovered the secrets to keeping passion alive. They go beyond the ordinary shtick of sending flowers or buying candy." - Houston Chronicle
"The master of romance." - Dallas Morning News
These are just a few of the reviews Michael Webb has received for his many writings on love, romance and the art of making love to a woman.
When you read “Lick By Lick - How To Go Down on A Woman
And Have Her Begging For More,” you joins the millions of people who already know what you’ve just discovered: this guy knows women. And he knows how to teach men to understand them and their needs, too.

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